465 - Overfunctioning, Perfectionism, and Avoidance: The Hidden Pattern Behind All Three
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465 - Overfunctioning, Perfectionism, and Avoidance: The Hidden Pattern Behind All Three
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You repack the bag after someone else packed it.
You reread the email five times before you send it.
Or you avoid the thing that matters most to you entirely, and call it not having the time.
These look like three different problems. They’re the same one.
It’s the Control Loop: the nervous system reflex that reaches for control any time it perceives a threat to your security or your sense of being good enough.
It shows up as overfunctioning, perfectionism, and underfunctioning, and once you see it, you cannot unsee it.
If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t stop managing everything, or why the thing you most want to do is the thing you keep avoiding, this is the episode that explains it.
What You’ll Learn
- Why your nervous system reaches for control even when the threat isn’t real
- The two types of perceived threats that trigger the loop
- Why overfunctioning is a survival strategy
- Why underfunctioning and avoidance are perfectionism running in reverse
- The difference between values-driven and fear-driven behavior
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