Ever walk away from a conversation thinking… “Wait—what do you mean? What exactly am I supposed to do?”

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark unpack the frustration of fuzzy, unclear feedback—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. You know someone is trying to tell you something … but it’s not landing.

Why don’t we ask?

They dig into what’s really holding us back (it’s not just confidence), the hidden cost of staying quiet, and why those “I should’ve asked…” moments keep happening.

And here’s the shift—stay curious, ask better questions, and actually listen. Not to react… but to understand.

Because once you’re clear on the feedback, then you get to decide what to do with it.

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Feel like your day is nothing but bad meetings—with nothing to show for it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark call out the real problem: too many meetings that waste time, stall decisions, and leave you doing your actual work after hours - because you're in meetings all day!

They break down the signs of bad meetings —and more importantly, how to fix them. From deciding if a meeting should even happen to leading a meeting that actually creates results, this episode is your guide to taking back control and eliminating bad meetings!

If your calendar is full but your progress isn’t, this one’s for you.

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Are you acting like your parents—and don’t even realize it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark, along with guest, Charlotte Ntreh, explore the subtle—and funny—ways “parent energy” shows up in how we talk, behave at work, and interact socially.

From outdated phrases to workplace habits and social quirks, they break down where it shows up and why it matters. Plus, a quick quiz to see just how strong your “parent tendencies” really are.

Because sometimes it’s cringe… and sometimes it’s wisdom worth keeping.

Be you—but at least know when your parent vibes are showing up.

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Why is there so much bad career advice and life advice out there?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark unpack how advice is everywhere—from social media and podcasts to friends, coworkers, and online “experts.” But more advice doesn’t always lead to better decisions. The key is using your own personal algorithm to filter out what fits and what doesn't fit you. They explore three keys for evaluating advice: is it credible, relevant, and aligned with your values and goals? And, is it true?

Advice can be a wonderful gift and essential for growing and reaching your goals- even advice that may not be what you wanted to hear.

If you struggle with too much information, direction, and advice from the world, this episode will help you design your own filter so it's not so overwhelming.

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Change can be exciting or scary —but it can also bring up one big question: what if I can’t do it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark tackle one of the biggest barriers to change: the doubts and fears that stop us before we even start. Whether you’re thinking about a new job, launching a business, moving somewhere new, or leading change at work, the hardest part is often getting past the voice in your head that says you’re not ready.

Patti shares insights from years of advising leaders and studying how people successfully make change happen. Patti and Mark talk about why our brains resist change, how to sort through the worries that hold us back, and why starting small can be the key to making big things happen.

If you’ve ever thought, maybe someday… but I’m not ready yet, this conversation is for you.

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You don’t need to reinvent yourself. You need to evolve.

People sometimes joke that we have a “Snoop & Martha vibe.” That got us thinking—not just about them, but about how to follow their lead and evolve over time without losing who you are.

In this episode, co-hosts Patti Johnson and Mark Benton, tackle growth and giving yourself permission to change. From evolving without losing your core identity to embracing the unexpected, expanding your circle, forgetting imposter syndrome, and turning stereotypes into strengths—this conversation is about avoiding “ordinary” and stepping into what’s next. All with inspiration from Snoop Dogg & Martha Stewart.

If you’re ready to rethink how you evolve, grow, partner, and show up - join us! This episode is for you.

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In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of?..., Mark Benton and Patti Johnson explore the frustrations of managing draining personalities and dynamics in any group. If you recognize the Meeting Hijacker, Side Chatter, Brager, Sly Operator, Bus Driver or the Kiss Up - this episode is for you. And, office politics isn’t limited to just business—it's anywhere humans work together.

Mark & Patti break down what it is, why it survives even virtually, the personas that drain you, and practical cheat codes to keep your energy and authenticity. In this episode, you’ll learn how to spot workplace politics in all settings and any type of group. You'll leave with practical, smart strategies that safeguard your energy and keep your focus on the work — not on the personalities around you.

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Do you struggle with always second-guessing yourself at work and in life? Ever make a choice or have a conversation… and then replay it for hours? Sometimes second-guessing yourself even before it happens? In this episode of Aren’t You Tired Of?, we sit down with leadership coach Ryan Halverson to explore self-trust and why it’s so hard to feel good about our decisions.

We explore the kind of second-guessing that drains your energy and keeps you off balance. The quiet replaying of conversations so your thoughts overtake you.

This conversation isn’t about surface-level confidence. It’s about decision-making, self-trust, and why so many capable, thoughtful people struggle to back themselves. If you’re tired of questioning yourself long after the moment has passed, this episode is for you.

Ryan Halverson brings more than 10 years of coaching and consulting experience across healthcare, financial services, insurance, technology, and nonprofit organizations. We're thrilled he brought his wisdom to this important conversation. Learn more about his work at ryanhalverson.com.

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