Walking into an IEP meeting can feel confusing, especially when you’re unsure what’s required, what’s flexible, and how decisions are made. In this episode, Leila Farshchian, a special educator and Board Certified Behavior Analyst, breaks down what parents can realistically expect from the IEP process.

We cover the basics: who should be in the room, how outside diagnoses interact with school evaluations, and the legal timelines that protect families. We also talk about goal setting and service intensity — what meaningful instruction looks like, how to spot inconsistencies across ABA, speech, and OT, and why collaboration matters when progress feels slow.

We address common pressure points, including fading supports, protecting unstructured times like lunch and assemblies, and deciding when inclusion is appropriate. You’ll also hear how to approach transitions between grades or schools to protect continuity of services and preserve hard-earned progress.

This is a practical, steady conversation designed to help parents navigate the IEP process with more clarity and confidence.

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The starting line of an autism journey can feel like a maze of waitlists, opinions, and second-guessing. We invited BCBA and clinic founder Anna Sturgeon to sit with us at the table and make that first stretch less lonely and far more practical. From low-cost, no-wait evaluations to caregiver-first coaching, Anna lays out how compassionate care is built—not with empty promises, but with listening, clear education, and plans that fit real families.

We unpack the pressure around the “forty hours” myth and talk through what individualized care really looks like when your child’s needs, your routines, and your resources are front and center. Anna maps the foundational skills that drive long-term growth—imitation, joint attention, echoics, listener responding, play, independence—and explains why giving timelines for language or school readiness can backfire. If speech isn’t the immediate path, we explore how AAC can open communication now, reduce frustration, and still support future speech. Different path, same dignity.

You’ll also hear concrete steps to take while waiting for services: define priorities, connect with informed parent communities, and choose providers who collaborate across ABA, OT, and speech. We share scripts for school advocacy that are respectful and firm, plus cues for spotting a good clinical fit—curiosity, transparency, and the humility to refer out when needed. The throughline is simple and strong: compare your child only to themselves, celebrate each gain, and build a team you can trust.

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Additional Resource

Choosing an ABA provider can feel complex, especially at the beginning.
To support families navigating these decisions, we’re sharing a practical checklist of questions to ask when exploring ABA services.

This resource is designed to help parents gather information, compare options, and make informed choices that fit their child and family.

👉 Download: Questions to Ask an ABA Provider

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Because when we sit at the same table, we understand more and judge less.

Ever been told your child is “bad” in the checkout line while you’re just trying to make it through the day? This episode centers on a different lens: not bad just communication. We dive into the real story behind behavior with BCBA and parent coach Kea Lee, exploring how meltdowns, eloping, and even aggression can be signals of unmet needs rather than defiance. Together, we unpack the everyday moments that push families to the brink and share clear, practical steps to bring more calm, confidence, and connection back into the home.

We talk through what actually works outside the clinic: visual schedules that make mornings smoother, timer cues that ease transitions, and simple ways to preview change so kids aren’t caught off guard. Kea explains why collaboration is more effective than compliance in ABA, how to build treatment plans that respect your culture and capacity, and why parents need support just as much as their children. You’ll hear practical tools for handling busy stores, long lines, and public judgment, along with ways to regulate yourself in the moment so you can support your child more effectively.

If you’ve felt isolated by public judgment or frustrated by strategies that worked in therapy but didn’t carry over at home, this conversation offers a grounded reset. We reframe behavior as communication, focus on teaching skills that match the child’s strengths, and talk about choosing one priority at a time so progress feels realistic. The takeaway is simple: your child isn’t working against you, and you don’t have to navigate this alone. Subscribe for more real-world autism support, share this episode with a parent who could use it, and leave a review to help other families find these conversations.

Additional Resource for Parents

If this conversation resonated, Kea Lee created the Grace & Growth Caregiver Program, a resource designed to support parents of children on the autism spectrum.

The program focuses on three core pillars: compassion, connection, and confidence — helping parents build emotional regulation skills, strengthen their relationship with their child, and feel more grounded during challenging moments at home.

You can learn more about the Grace & Growth Caregiver Program here:
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