She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than once. At the club.

This week, Adam & Pris dive headfirst into one of the most common — and least talked-about — issues in the lifestyle: the orgasm gap. Is it a vetting problem? A communication problem? A men-are-oblivious problem? (Spoiler: yes, yes, and yes.)

• Why the orgasm gap is real — and gets worse in the lifestyle
• Why she comes easily at home but not at the club
• How to vet for pleasure-focused partners
• The power of over-communication before you ever get to the back room
• Toys, body language, cheat codes, and how to advocate for your own pleasure
• Is everyone just out for themselves? Adam & Pris give the honest answer

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Episode Summary: Things got real this week on Beyond Monogamy. Adam and Pris pull back the curtain on what it actually looks like when financial stress collides with the swinging lifestyle — missed events, killed libidos, emotional eating, and the very adult decision to stay home and pay the bills instead of living that highlight reel.

They open up about skipping Naughty N'awlins 2026 and the Port Aransas beach takeover, navigating life on one income, the struggle to grow an OnlyFans when you actually have a full-time job, and how stress messes with your sex drive more than anything else ever could. Plus: Pris's big three-career plan, her Series 65 journey, and the mystery of why Buddies THC drinks are the unlikely hero of their recent club nights.

Raw, honest, funny, and deeply relatable — this one's for every lifestyle couple who's ever had to choose between the club and the electric bill.

In This Episode:

• Why Adam and Pris had to cancel Naughty N'awlins and the beach takeover
• Living the lifestyle on one income — what's actually possible
• The OnlyFans reality check nobody talks about
• How financial stress tanks your libido (and what to do about it)
• Pris's plan: financial advisor + lifestyle event planner + secret project for women
• Why Buddies THC seltzers are now a club night staple
• The St. Andrew's Cross history lesson nobody asked for (but got anyway)

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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with Stirling Cooper — former adult film star, ex-male escort, and now one of the world's most sought-after intimacy and sexual performance coaches for men. This one gets real, fast.

Stirling breaks down how he cracked the swinger scene as a single male in Australia, built a high-class escorting career, won awards in adult film, and then walked away from it all to help everyday men take control of their sex lives. We also find out what celery has to do with your semen volume (yes, really).

• How Stirling broke into the lifestyle as a single male
• From research scientist to male escort — his unexpected path
• What the adult film industry is really like behind the scenes
• Why he retired from porn in 2020
• Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction & the male refractory period
• Adam's very unique brain chemistry (no prolactin, who?)
• The supplement stack that can make you multi-orgasmic
• The celery trick that will change your semen game forever

• Men: stirlingcooper.com
• Women: stirlingforher.com — free Pleasure Blueprint guide

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QUICKIE: When They Want My Spouse and Not Me

It stings. It's awkward. And if you've been in the lifestyle long enough, it's happened to you. In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris tackle one of the most relatable — and ego-bruising — moments in ethical non-monogamy: when a couple (or someone in the lifestyle) makes it crystal clear they're interested in your partner... but not really in you.

From getting iced out at meetups, to a couple literally texting only one of them with interest, to stare-downs at lifestyle events, Adam and Pris get real about the feelings, the stories, and how they've learned to handle it with (mostly) grace. They also dig into the role of delivery, communication, and why your partner sugarcoating the news might not be the betrayal you think it is.

In this episode:

• Real stories of being the "less preferred" partner — from both sides
• Why delivery matters more than the message itself
• The four-way connection — lifestyle unicorn or overrated requirement?
• How Adam handles it when he's into a woman but unsure if Pris will vibe with her husband
• Pris's ADHD-fueled honesty about getting sour — and why she owns it

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Episode Summary

Adam and Pris sit down with Natasha Helfer, AASECT-certified sex therapist, author, and founder of Symmetry Counseling, for one of the most powerful conversations in Beyond Monogamy history. Natasha spent three decades helping people untangle religious trauma, sexual shame, and purity culture — and then made national headlines when she was excommunicated from the LDS Church for speaking openly about sex, faith, and mental health.

In this episode, we dig into why so many people leaving high-demand religions explore ethical non-monogamy, how shame rewires our nervous systems, the myth of sex addiction in religious communities, and how to reclaim your erotic identity no matter where you came from.

Topics Covered

• Purity culture and long-term sexual shame
• Natasha's excommunication from the LDS Church
• Why people leaving religion pursue ENM
• The sex addiction myth and its religious roots
• Navigating faith AND non-monogamy simultaneously
• Mom guilt, mismatched libido, and the orgasm gap
• How communication transforms relationships

Connect with Natasha Helfer

• Website: natashahelford.com
• The Sanctuary – Salt Lake City, UT
• Fantasy Lifestyle Cruise – February classes

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Find Us

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• Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio

Feeling the pressure? 🍍 So are we.

On this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about one of the lifestyle's most overlooked problems — pressure. Whether it's a spouse pushing their partner on someone else, over-serving drinks to loosen inhibitions, or just the unspoken expectation to perform at events, pressure in the swinger lifestyle is more common than anyone wants to admit.

Adam confesses he was that guy early on — pushy for experiences. Pris calls him out. Repeatedly. Lovingly. Brutally. They also dig into the pressure of being recognized as podcasters at lifestyle events, the stress of finances and job searching while keeping the lifestyle going, and whether Pris is actually retiring at 50 (spoiler: Adam says absolutely not).

• Pushiness in the lifestyle — from newbies AND veterans
• Why asking for your partner instead of letting them speak is a huge red flag
• Adam's inability to say no (Pris has receipts)
• The pressure to drink, perform, dress the theme, and be "on"
• Real talk: financial stress and the lifestyle

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What does it take to build the world's largest lifestyle event from a house party to a 3,000+ person New Orleans takeover? Adam and Pris sit down with Bob Hannaford, founder and CEO of Naughty Events and the mastermind behind Naughty N'Awlins — the most iconic swinger and kink convention on the planet. Bob pulls back the curtain on 28 years of growth, the Cathedral of Kink dungeon, the Sexual Freedom Parade, consent culture at scale, and what makes Naughty N'Awlins unlike any event in the lifestyle.

In this episode:

• How Naughty N'Awlins grew from a 175-person house party to a sold-out global event
• The Sexual Freedom Parade — why it makes grown adults cry in the streets
• Consent at 3,000+ people: required tests, independent advocates, and 20+ pages of policy
• The Cathedral of Kink, the Dark Room, and the new Afterglow after-hours lounge
• Tips for anxiety sufferers navigating a massive lifestyle event
• Why New Orleans is the perfect city for sexual freedom

Naughty N'Awlins 2026 — July 8–12 in New Orleans — is SOLD OUT. Get on the waitlist and start planning for 2027 at naughtyevents.com.

Beyond Monogamy will have an exhibitor booth at Naughty N'Awlins — come find us!

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The guest didn't show up. The mics were already hot. What happened next became one of our most real, unfiltered episodes yet.

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris got caught mid-conversation while waiting on a no-show guest — and what started as backstage small talk turned into a deep, raw, hilarious dive into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, jealousy, compersion, and what it actually looks like to evolve as a couple in the lifestyle.

They cover:

• Why they didn't do polyamory "right" the first time — and what they'd do differently
• Pris dropping the bomb: she's open to trying poly again
• The wild list of stipulations Pris has for any future partners (spoiler: it's a lot)
• Jealousy, compersion, and the difference between rules and boundaries
• What successful polyamory actually looks like — and why it doesn't have to mean dating someone

This one was never supposed to be recorded. That's exactly why you need to hear it.

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🎉 Upcoming Events:

• Beyond Monogamy Live @ Club Eden San Antonio – June 20
• Naughty N'awlins – July 8–12, New Orleans (come find us at our booth!)
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