Trust isn’t built through grand gestures—it’s earned (or lost) in the daily grind of promises kept or broken.

This episode breaks down the core truth: what we think and say sets expectations, but only what we actually do defines our character.

After we make a commitment, we’ll take one of three paths —follow through to make a trust deposit, ask to break the commitment and risk suspicion (depending on how often you do it and why), or break the commitment and trigger major distrust.

For leaders aiming to grow influence without formal authority, the message is clear: prioritize congruency (actions aligned with words/walking the talk), value others’ time and expectations, and treat commitments made as unbreakable to avoid suspicion about motives.

When you keep your word consistently, you create hope, foster loyalty, and turn your team into one that performs because they trust you.

At age 82, US Marine Medal of Honor recipient Colonel Wesley L. Fox still was still inspiring crowds with stories of the leaders who shaped him, none more than Corporal Myron J. Davis during the freezing nights of the Korean War.

Facing demoralized troops eating frozen rations in the dark, USMC Corporal Davis invested in a Coleman stove and insisted on carrying it himself—not for personal gain, but to ensure his squad could heat their food first. He passed it along without ever using it and always took the last, least desirable portions.

Colonel Fox’s simple yet profound takeaway—“We knew he cared”—highlights how selfless acts demonstrate character and earn deep trust.

Years later, at the Blue Ridge Conference on Leadership in 2013, Colonel Fox’s fist bump and connection with Mack Story showed he lived these values, teaching that real leadership isn’t about rank or perks—it’s about serving those you lead to build teams that endure any hardship.

Are you ready for an engaging discussion on building greater influence in your marriage?

With humor and heart, Mack and Ria Story share relatable stories—like Mack's infamous laundry mishap—and delve into the 5 Love Languages, revealing how his preference for quality time complements her need for words of affirmation.

This episode offers practical insights and lighthearted moments to help couples strengthen their connection.

Note: This episode is also featured on as Episode #11 “Love Languages, Laundry Fiascos, and Relationship Lessons with Mack Story” on Ria Story’s “Grace Every Day” Podcast on her YouTube channel if you prefer to watch the video version.

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