Here’s a cleaner, more polished Spotify description that still keeps the rawness and emotional tension:

What do Christian women REALLY want — and what happens when faith and desire go to war inside you?

In this episode of the Big Brutha Podcast, Big Brutha sits down with Big Sister Michelle Obikwelu for one of the most raw and honest conversations we’ve had yet.

This isn’t surface-level relationship talk.

Michelle opens up about the tension many Christian women quietly carry:
wanting love,
wanting marriage,
wanting intimacy,
while also trying to remain faithful to God.

She asks the question many people are afraid to say out loud:

“They tell me to be satisfied with Jesus… but what about when I want more?”

We go all the way there.

Together, we discuss:
• Why so many women feel hopeless after 35
• Faith, loneliness, and sexual desire
• The real meaning of biblical submission
• Why modern relationships became “men vs. women”
• Healing from father wounds and personal responsibility
• Pornography, temptation, shame, and condemnation
• Why character matters more than social media success
• The honest struggles many believers hide behind church language

If you’re a man trying to better understand women — or a woman who’s been silently wrestling with these feelings — this conversation is for you.

This episode is honest.
Challenging.
Funny.
Convicting.
And deeply human.

🙏 Big Brutha Podcast exists for the man — and the woman behind him — who is done making excuses and ready to become who God created them to be.

📲 Follow & connect:
https://bigbruthapodcast.com

Guest: Michelle Obikwelu

🎁 Special Gift for the Big Brutha Community:
Michelle is offering 15% OFF both of her Personal Strategy programs using promo code: BIGBRUTHA

✅ Personal Strategy 5-Day Challenge
(August 24–28, 2026 | Virtual via Zoom)
https://themichelleleannshow.gumroad.com/l/personal-strategy-5-day-challenge/bigbrutha

🎥 Podcast filmed by Richard Compton
Co-produced with BigGuy MGMT