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  • How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Build a Stronger Relationship

    How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Build a Stronger Relationship
    2026/04/09

    Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding.


    In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections.


    We talk about:

    • what ethical non-monogamy actually means and the different forms it can take

    • why opening a relationship will not fix communication problems, it will amplify them

    • the importance of having a strong foundation before exploring ENM

    • emotional bandwidth, time, and attention as boundaries people forget to set

    • how different partners can have completely different approaches to non-monogamy

    • why communication needs to be proactive, not reactive

    • dating apps, red flags, and what emotional availability actually looks like

    • fear versus caution when navigating vulnerability and new connections

    If you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness.


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  • Safe Slut Energy: Rewriting Sex, Stigma & STI Shame with Tricia Wise

    Safe Slut Energy: Rewriting Sex, Stigma & STI Shame with Tricia Wise
    2026/04/02
    What if the thing you were taught to fear most about your sex life is actually… not a big deal?In this episode, we are dismantling one of the most overblown, misunderstood, and unnecessarily stigmatized topics in sex: herpes. And no, your sex life is not over. Not even close.I’m sitting down with the iconic Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, for a bold, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about what it really means to navigate dating, sex, and identity after a herpes diagnosis. We talk about how she coined “Safe Slut” the same day she was diagnosed, how she turned that into a platform that educates and empowers thousands, and why herpes is way more common and way less dramatic than we have been led to believe. From disclosure and dating to sex work, stigma, and reclaiming the word “slut,” this conversation is equal parts liberating and real.We talk about:why STI stigma is usually worse than the realityhow to disclose to partners without turning it into a dramatic confessionwhy sexual health is a shared responsibility between you and your partner/sreclaiming the word “slut” and unlearning shame around sexualityhow misinformation around STIs has been shaped by culture, media, and fearwhy your sex life is not over, it might actually be leveling upIf you have ever felt shame around your body, your desires, or your sexual history, this episode is your reminder that you get to define your own narrative. Sex can still be hot, fun, and deeply connected, and honestly, maybe even better when you stop buying into the fear.Connect with Tricia: OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/thecassieblackTwitter: https://twitter.com/safe_slutIG: https://www.instagram.com/safe.slut/?hl=enSubstack: https://safeslut.substack.com/Shop: https://www.safeslut.shop/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/safeslutYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk7lX24XQC8CckzeknAhQ9ATiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@safe.slut?_t=8UuUIhvr2be&_r=1Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee
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    41 分
  • Compulsory Sexuality: You Don't Have to Want Sex with Jamie Azar

    Compulsory Sexuality: You Don't Have to Want Sex with Jamie Azar
    2026/03/26

    What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live?


    In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need.


    I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms.


    We talk about:

    - what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere

    - why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you

    - the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation

    - how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship

    - expanding your definition of sex and intimacy

    - centring pleasure over performance


    If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good.


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    48 分
  • Bad Bitch In The Streets And The Sheets with Brittany Brave

    Bad Bitch In The Streets And The Sheets with Brittany Brave
    2026/03/19

    Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out.


    In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the bedroom. Brittany shares how she took back Bad Bitch Brunch from a misogynistic business owner, why she's an advocate for intimate partner violence survivors, and what she'll teach her future daughter about sex, agency, and consent.


    This conversation gets real about domestic violence, sexual performance pressure, and betting on yourself as the foundation for everything.


    We talk about

    • what being a bad bitch actually means

    • using comedy as reclaiming power after domestic violence

    • Bad Bitch Brunch and creating spaces for women and queer talent

    • dropping the sexual performance anxiety and just enjoying yourself

    • why "I gave it up too soon" is patriarchal bullshit

    • communication and consistency as the ultimate turn-ons

    • raising daughters with body autonomy and sexual agency

    • teaching consent, not shame

    If you've been performing instead of enjoying, people-pleasing instead of speaking out, or wondering what confidence actually looks like in practice, this episode will remind you that being a bad bitch starts with betting on yourself.


    Connect with Brittany Brave

    Website: https://www.brittanybrave.live/

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    40 分
  • Busting Common Sex Myths and Getting Cliterate with Dr. Sonya Maya

    Busting Common Sex Myths and Getting Cliterate with Dr. Sonya Maya
    2026/03/12

    From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed.


    In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve endings (not numb them out), and why that whole "if he wanted to, he would" narrative is more nuanced than what other “experts” are trying to put it.


    This conversation gets into the science of hormones during sex, the difference between swingers spaces and ethical non-monogamy communities, and why social media is both helping and hurting our sex lives.


    We talk about

    • why sex is so much more than penis-in-vagina penetration

    • why simultaneous orgasms are rare and shouldn't be the goal

    • the myth that vaginas get loose from sex (they don't)

    • body count, slut-shaming, and why that question reveals more about the asker

    • how porn warps our expectations of real sex

    • why removing expectations is actually the sexiest thing you can do


    If you've been scrolling TikTok for sex advice, watching porn as your primary sex education, or trying to figure out why your dating life feels hollow, this episode will shift your perspective on what good sex actually requires.


    Connect with Dr. Sonya Maya

    Website: https://www.sonyamaya.com/

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    51 分
  • Ovulation & Main Character Energy: Understanding Your Body's Sexual Rhythm

    Ovulation & Main Character Energy: Understanding Your Body's Sexual Rhythm
    2026/03/05

    What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure?


    In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate breaks down how hormones affect everything from your libido to your skin to who you want to have sex with, and why knowing where you are in your cycle can transform your intimate life.


    This conversation goes beyond basic biology into why cervical fluid is nature's lube and how becoming cycle literate can help you communicate what you need in and out of the bedroom.

    We talk about

    • how your hormones affect libido, who you're attracted to, and when you're most turned on

    • why cervical fluid is nature's lube and what it tells you about your body

    • the two biomarkers you need to track: cervical fluid and basal body temperature

    • ovulation as creative and sexual energy, not just a fertility event

    • how cervical fluid is literally a sperm snack (you'll never forget this)

    • myth busting: day 14 ovulation, feeling ovulation, and textbook cycles

    • why hormones don't make you unstable (they make you dynamic and cyclical)

    If you've ever wondered why your sex drive changes throughout the month, felt disconnected from your body, or want to understand what your hormones are doing to your libido and confidence, this episode is your invitation to start listening to what your body is telling you.

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    Website: https://helloearthbody.com/

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    50 分
  • When Your Mind Says Yes But Your Body Says No: Understanding Embodied Consent with Arielle Zadok

    When Your Mind Says Yes But Your Body Says No: Understanding Embodied Consent with Arielle Zadok
    2026/02/26
    Your body is always talking to you. The question is, are you listening?In this episode, I sit down with intimacy coordinator, sexologist, and podcast host Arielle Zadok to explore embodied consent, the practice of checking in with not just your mind, but your entire body when it comes to desire, boundaries, and sexual experiences. Arielle breaks down what it means to truly listen to your body's signals, why silence is never consent, and how stress responses like fawning can complicate our ability to advocate for ourselves.This conversation goes beyond the bedroom into play parties, film sets, and everyday interactions, showing us how consent is a practice that requires slowing down, getting curious, and honoring what our bodies are telling us, even when our minds want something different.We talk aboutembodied consent and the difference between what your mind wants and what your body is sayingphysical signs to look for in yourself and your partners (breath, tension, engagement)the four stress responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawnhow to practice saying no in low-stakes situations before high-stakes onesconsent at play parties and how structured consent talks create safer spacesintimacy coordination on film sets and protecting actors' boundarieswhy "maybe" is always a no until it becomes a clear yesrepair over punishment in consent violationsIf you've ever said yes when your body was screaming no, if you struggle with people-pleasing in sexual situations, or if you want to understand how to create truly consensual experiences, this episode will shift how you think about consent forever.Connect with Arielle: Website: www.thepleasureproducer.comPodcast: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/thepleasureproducerTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepleasureproducer$99 Program: https://www.thepleasureproducer.com/fckDownload your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee
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  • Pussy Worship: Stop Settling for Mediocre Sex with Alexa Andre

    Pussy Worship: Stop Settling for Mediocre Sex with Alexa Andre
    2026/02/19

    Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic.


    In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through the motions, and what it takes to receive pleasure without guilt or performance anxiety.


    This conversation is a permission slip to want more, ask for more, and settle for nothing less than worship.


    We talk about

    • ​identifying red flags versus green flags in sexual partners
    • ​how to receive pleasure without getting in your head
    • ​the play lab concept for exploring techniques and preferences together
    • ​reassurance, communication, and creating safe spaces for pleasure
    • ​integrating toys into pussy worship
    • ​why "are you satisfied?" is the most important question after sex
    • ​raising your standards and refusing to settle for mediocre sex

    If you've been settling for obligation when you deserve devotion, or if you've been wondering whether real pussy worship even exists, this episode will change how you think about pleasure, reciprocity, and what you deserve in the bedroom.


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    Website: https://sexwithalexa.co/

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    51 分