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Dear Son,

Dear Son,

著者: Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

Derek Johns
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  • Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Ep 195 | The Dear Son, Show
    2026/06/24

    Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.


    Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Dear Son Show (Patrick Murphy)


    On this Father’s Day episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Patrick Murphy from Florida to discuss fatherhood, peace, and relationships. Patrick shares growing up in the Bay Area with nine siblings, learning entrepreneurship from his father, and being shaped by his parents’ divorce and contrasting parenting styles. He describes how his first 27-year marriage ended in divorce, leaving him bitter and searching for answers, which led him to study relationships and help teach a divorce and separation care ministry at One Community Church. In his second marriage, frequent divorce talks shifted after a spiritual warning and a series of “ice cream dates” focused on sharing childhood stories instead of issues, helping them heal. Patrick argues that relationships need both love and kindness, warns against weaponizing vulnerability, and says this approach brought peace at home and years without arguments.


    00:00 Guarded Love Mindset

    00:26 Kindness Keeps Love Alive

    01:27 Welcome to Dear Son

    02:55 Building a Peace System

    04:36 Corporate vs Family Costs

    07:02 Life Escalator and Overwhelm

    09:52 Hiding Burdens in Marriage

    11:03 Roots in the Bay

    13:09 Nine Siblings and Dad Hustle

    15:02 Parenting Styles and Lessons

    18:35 Parents Divorce Impact

    21:52 Breaking the Divorce Cycle

    23:33 Divorce Ministry Insights

    26:05 Nail in Tire Relationship Radar

    28:27 Anti Divorce and Second Marriage

    30:38 Ice Cream Date Reset

    31:35 Healing The Inner Kids

    33:01 Love And Kindness Formula

    35:11 Why Counseling Can Backfire

    36:54 No Arguments By Design

    40:35 Kindness Beats Attitude

    44:48 Peace At Home Changes Men

    49:46 Hats And Lost Identity

    52:48 Helpmeet And Safe Space

    56:48 Stop Fixing Start Loving

    58:59 Daily Practices To Stay Close

    01:01:16 Customer Service Marriage Mindset

    01:02:21 Book Plug And Farewell


    #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #marriagecounseling


    Channel Focus Areas:

    “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

    “How to Be a Better Father”

    “Father Son Relationship Advice”

    “Mistakes Fathers Make”

    “Lessons Every Man Should Learn”


    Follow Patrick: https://instagram.com/theconflictsoflife


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1. subscribe to the channel,

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video,

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com


    My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1


    My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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  • Read the Room: Awareness, Tact, and Raising Kids Into Adulthood | Ep 194 | The Dear Son, Show
    2026/06/20

    Read the Room: Awareness, Tact, and Raising Kids Into Adulthood


    Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac of the Dear Son Show discuss “reading the room” as a key life skill for kids and adults—balancing individuality with tact, context, and awareness of consequences. They talk about observing who children become around friends, resisting “go along to get along” behavior, and understanding how intent doesn’t erase harm when words land offensively. The conversation also covers parenting older teens and young adults: checking in often, being approachable, not dismissing “kid-like” gaps at 19–20, and helping kids pivot through phases without forcing a parent’s timeline. In dating, they stress consent: a yes can turn to no, and “no” (including hesitation) means stop. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more conversations like this.


    00:00 No Means No

    00:55 Welcome to Dear Son

    01:28 Merch and Community Fuel

    03:35 Read the Room Theme

    04:35 Be Yourself With Limits

    06:04 Parenting Individuality

    07:11 Bishop the Brain Example

    10:29 Corporate Code Switching

    13:34 Peer Pressure and Yes Men

    16:06 Context Tact and Access

    22:14 Friends Choices and Consequences

    26:36 Observe the Friend Group

    27:40 Know Your Childs Role

    28:42 Confidence Versus Ego

    29:38 Spotting Behavior Extremes

    30:35 Check In With Your Kids

    32:52 Approachable Parent Energy

    34:53 Dating And Consent

    38:24 Why Are You Dating

    40:14 Theyre Not Kids

    44:38 Adult Child Still Yours

    47:08 Scariest Parenting Fears

    51:19 Closing Gratitude And Episode 200

    54:07 DFW Pull Up Invite

    56:40 Final Sign Off


    #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk


    Channel Focus Areas:

    “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

    “How to Be a Better Father”

    “Father Son Relationship Advice”

    “Mistakes Fathers Make”

    “Lessons Every Man Should Learn”


    Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1. subscribe to the channel,

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video,

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com


    My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1


    My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • My Emotional Wellness & Healing Journey | Zimbabwe to the UK | Ep 193 | The Dear Son, Show
    2026/06/19

    Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.


    King Cass Ajani on Fatherhood, Emotional Wellness & Healing: Dear Son Show (Zimbabwe to UK Journey)


    In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns sits down with King Cass Ajani (Dumisani David Moyo), born in Zimbabwe and raised in the UK, to discuss identity, fatherhood, and emotional wellbeing for boys and men. Ajani shares memories of a joyful childhood in Harare, the abrupt move to South London at age 10, and his family’s fragmentation as his father became less present and left when Ajani was 14. He reflects on a father who was accomplished and confidence-building yet emotionally unavailable, and how grief after his father’s death led to a dark season before community, honesty, and therapy helped him rebuild. Ajani explains how his work mentoring men centers on curiosity, gentleness, and asking “Are you okay?”, and he shares his Brunch Brothers books and where to find his work online.


    00:00 Emotions With Dad

    01:07 Welcome To Dear Son

    01:40 Meet Ajani From Zimbabwe

    03:07 Growing Up In Harare

    04:14 Family Shifts In UK

    05:05 UK Culture And Food

    06:36 Zimbabwe Comfort Food

    08:28 Abrupt Move And Identity

    10:32 Remembering His Father

    13:07 Grace And Generations

    17:54 Becoming A Father Figure

    22:23 Calling And Credentials

    23:31 When Doors Close

    24:24 Divine Appointment Data

    25:25 Surrendering the Dream

    27:04 Curiosity With Young Men

    32:14 Finding Okay After Loss

    36:20 Gentle Parenting Lessons

    38:09 Learning Love Elsewhere

    43:12 Proud Not Pressured

    47:55 Books Movement Next Steps

    50:26 Closing Thanks Subscribe


    #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #Zimbabwe #hararezimbabwe


    Channel Focus Areas:

    “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

    “How to Be a Better Father”

    “Father Son Relationship Advice”

    “Mistakes Fathers Make”

    “Lessons Every Man Should Learn”


    Follow Ajani: https://instagram.com/ajanikingdom


    Ajani's books:

    An Invitation To The Table

    https://a.co/d/0bdMTdBz


    Four Fires

    https://a.co/d/0hfyHZvI


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1. subscribe to the channel,

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video,

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com


    My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1


    My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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