What would you do in your 20s if you were dropped back into the exact same life — same people, same money, same jobs — but with your older, wiser, slightly more unbothered brain? In this fun hypothetical episode, Robin and Deborah imagine going back in time with their current boundaries, therapy language, and red‑flag radar intact.

We talk situationships we’d never even start, “small” choices that secretly shaped everything, money moves and career decisions we’d handle completely differently, and what we totally misunderstood about relationships in our 20s — including the idea that getting married is a competition or that there’s some magical timeline we’re all supposed to be on. We also get into bodies, beauty standards, and the exact moment we realized that if you have to force it, it’s not the thing.

Whether you’re in your 20s right now or decades past them, this one will have you laughing, cringing, and maybe rethinking what “being behind” actually means.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we’re not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It’s not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!