In this episode of Too Sober For This, recovery advocate Shell Righini and comedian Iain Anderson tackle one of life’s biggest questions: does true love actually exist?

Recorded just after Valentine’s Day, and shortly after Iain announced his engagement, the conversation quickly turns into an honest, funny, and occasionally uncomfortable exploration of love, relationships, and how sobriety changes the way we think about them.

Shell and Iain talk about the expectations we grow up with around romance, the reality of dating as adults, and how recovery forces you to confront your feelings instead of hiding from them.

They explore everything from messy past relationships and emotional unavailability to the idea that maybe real love isn’t about someone completing you; rather it’s about two people who already have their own lives choosing to build something together.

In this episode

• Iain shares the story of how he proposed to his fiancé
• Why Shell has become deeply cynical about the idea of true love
• How childhood expectations shape the way we approach relationships
• The difference between love, attachment, and codependency
• Why friendships can sometimes offer deeper connection than romance
• The importance of learning to like, and eventually love yourself first

Expect uncomfortable questions, strong opinions, dark humour, and plenty of laughing at things we probably shouldn’t.

Because sometimes, even in sobriety we find… we are definitely too sober for this.

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Next week we’re talking about money.

So we want to hear from you: Why does talking about money feel like dirty talk?

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