When it comes to being a great husband, there are a few days we need to remember: her birthday, Valentine’s Day, your wedding anniversary, and of course, Mother’s Day.

I grew up watching my dad spend lots of money on purses, perfumes, and other luxuries for my mom on Mother’s Day, while simply sharing the credit with me and my sister. That’s what I thought I was supposed to do… until I cracked the code.

Mother’s Day will be here sooner than you realize, and I want you to be ready. This week, I’m sharing the formula for giving your wife the perfect Mother’s Day gift every year. I’ll keep it simple and walk you through exactly what I did last year with my three oldest kids, who were between 4 and 8 years old.

Being a great dad is tied to being a great husband. Now you’ll be able to show your kids just how much their mom means to you by working together with them to give her the perfect Mother’s Day gift.

Some dads think being present means just being around but your kids can feel the difference between being there and being close.

In this episode, I talk about something simple that has a massive impact on your relationship with your children. Proximity. Not just physical presence, but intentional closeness. As fathers, we are called to model our lives after our Heavenly Father, and one of the most powerful things He offers us is nearness. He draws close to us, and we should be doing the same with our kids.

I break down three practical ways you can pursue proximity in your everyday life. These are not complicated strategies. They are simple, intentional choices that can change how your kids experience you as their dad.

In this episode you will learn

• Why proximity matters more than you think in fatherhood
• How doing what your kids love builds connection
• The power of bringing your kids into your everyday life
• How physical touch creates lasting emotional security

If you want to be a father your kids feel close to, not just one who provides from a distance, this episode will challenge you and give you clear direction on how to start.

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If our kids don’t take our words seriously, it’s not because they’re stubborn. It’s because something is broken in how we communicate as dads.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be a father of your word. Not just saying the right things, but actually following through in a way that builds trust, respect, and strong relationships with your children. I walk through a real story with my son and how one simple opportunity revealed a powerful lesson about discipline, consistency, and grace.

Too many dads either enforce rules without compassion or offer grace without structure. Neither works. Your kids need both.

In this episode you will learn:

• How to enforce discipline without damaging your relationship
• What it looks like to include a “window of grace” in parenting
• Why consistency matters more than intensity in discipline

If you want to lead your family well, you must value your words. This episode will challenge you to slow down, think before you speak, and become the kind of dad your kids can trust.

Every father has faced it. The meltdown in public. The tears. The frustration. The moment when you feel your patience slipping and you just want the behavior to stop.

In this episode, I share a moment I witnessed between a dad and his little daughter at Chick-fil-A that stuck with me. Watching that interaction reminded me how easy it is for fathers to react out of frustration instead of leading with patience, wisdom, and relationship.

Tantrums are part of childhood. They are not solved with threats, labels, or intimidation. As fathers, our job is not simply to control behavior. Our job is to guide our children, build trust, and help them grow through those difficult moments.

I talk about the mistakes many dads make when emotions run high and the simple but powerful approach that has helped me walk my own children through those difficult moments.

In this episode you will learn

• Why threatening your kids damages trust and rarely works

• The danger of labeling children as “good” or “bad”

• Why tantrums take time and patience to tame• How relationship always matters more than control

• Why a simple hug can completely change a meltdown

• How fathers build long-term trust during emotional moments

If you are a dad trying to lead your children with wisdom, patience, and faith, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you respond in the hardest parenting moments.

Every dad would say, "I would die for my kid."

It sounds powerful. It sounds noble. And in many ways it is true. Most dads would step in front of danger without hesitation.

But what about the everyday moments?

The challenge is not simply being willing to die for our kids in one dramatic moment. The real challenge is choosing to live for them every single day.

In this episode you will learn:

• The difference between dying for your kids and living for them

• Why personal success alone does not automatically benefit your children

• How intentional sacrifice builds generational impact

• What it truly means to give yourself for your children

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Have you ever poured yourself out for your family and wondered if anyone even noticed?

As fathers, we work hard. We sacrifice. We provide. We protect. And if we are honest, there are days when we wish someone would simply say thank you. In this episode, I talk about what I believe is the true heart of fatherhood, and it is not easy.

A comment on one of my reels inspired this episode. A dad shared how he had given over 20 years to his family and felt like there was no appreciation in return. That struck something deep. Because many Christian fathers wrestle with the same thing. We want respect. We want gratitude. But what if biblical fatherhood calls us to something deeper?

I walk through what Scripture teaches about love, respect, sacrifice, and what it really means to follow Jesus as a dad. This episode is about fatherhood advice rooted in the character of God, not in our feelings. It is about trusting Him when appreciation is absent. It is about leading your home the way Christ leads us.

In this episode you will learn

• Why respect from your children is earned, not demanded

• How biblical love gives without seeking something in return

• What Jesus models for fathers through sacrifice

• How to respond when you feel unappreciated at home

• Why trusting God matters more than trusting your emotions

If you are a Christian father trying to lead well, grow spiritually, and raise children with integrity and strength, this conversation will challenge and steady you. Keep following Jesus. Even when it feels unnoticed.

If you feel and believe this is a step you need to take and are ready to take, start by getting a copy of Following Our Father today. https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

Most dads want to be a good dad. But what if that’s the wrong goal?

In this episode, I challenge one of the most common and most misleading pursuits in fatherhood. Because being a “good dad” isn’t determined by how much we provide, how hard we work, or how many things we do right.

It’s determined by our relationship with our child.

Using biblical insight and real-life fatherhood perspective, we unpack:

• Why “good dad” is a status you don’t get to assign yourself
• The danger of doing all the right things while missing what your kids actually need
• How provision, protection, and presence can still fall short

You can give your kids the world, but if they needed your shoulder and didn’t get it, you missed the point.

This conversation will challenge you to stop chasing fatherhood checklists and start building the kind of relationship your kids will one day thank God for.

If you are ready to be the dad your kid needs you to be and the dad God has created you to be, grab a copy of Following Our Father today: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

Fatherhood changes everything, especially our expectations.

Many dads step into parenting with ambition, personal standards, and a vision for what excellence looks like, only to feel frustrated when they cannot seem to measure up once children enter the picture.

In this episode, we revisit expectations and why so many fathers quietly wrestle with feeling like they are falling short.

Looking at Luke 14 and the principle of counting the cost, we talk about what it means to see the full scope of fatherhood. This includes not only the daily responsibilities, but also the long term calling of raising and discipling children.

You will hear:

• Why unrealistic expectations create frustration
• The shift from individual success to family leadership
• How fatherhood reshapes priorities and convenience
• Why you do not have to win every daily battle
• The importance of seeing the long term vision for your children

If you have ever felt overwhelmed, behind, or inadequate as a dad, this conversation will help you reframe your expectations and lead your family with clarity and patience.

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