What does it actually take to have sex on camera… on command… with a room full of people watching?

In this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson, better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. From being recruited into the industry by his ex-wife as “free labor” to navigating performance pressure, awkward beginnings, and the mental gymnastics of staying hard under bright lights, Aaron shares it all—no filter.

But this isn’t just about sex on camera. It’s about ego, vulnerability, discipline, and the art of making someone else feel like the star. Aaron opens up about the reality of female pleasure in porn, the difference between performance and intimacy, and why being a great lover has nothing to do with a “technique” and everything to do with presence.

We get into kink, consent, gangbang dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This episode is raw, hilarious, deeply insightful—and might completely change the way you see porn, sex, and connection.

Chapters

Intros Meet Small Hands: How He Accidentally Became A Porn Actor (00:00)

First Scenes, Nerves, And Barely Getting Through It (05:34)

Why Porn Sex Is Completely Different From Real Sex (7:08)

The Truth About Female Pleasure On Camera (11:06)

The Ridiculous Origin Of “Small Hands” (14:08)

Having An Experience With Two Or More Men? Aarons Reveals Secret To Successful Scene (17:19)

Objectification And Why Porn Is More Collaborative Than You Think (20:45)

Ethical Porn Vs Toxic Porn: What’s Real (28:02)

Sex Skills: Learning From Women (Not Porn) (31:27)

What Makes You Good In Bed ()35:55)

Romantically And Emotionally Monogamous And Sexually Non Monogamous (40:22)

Dating After Porn And Emotional Availability (46:13)

The Wildest Scenes He’s Ever Filmed, Waterboarding, Breath Play (51:27)

Safe Words And Safe Signals In The Adult Film Industry (54:07)

Dog Clickers In Kink (56:42)

Dom Energy Explained And Why It’s Service (58:37)

Erectile Dysfunction And Real Talk About The Mental Game Of Being A Porn Star (01:02:57)

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This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fantasies, non-monogamy, and the psychological runway of arousal, this episode is a raw, eye-opening look at what it really takes to create a sex life that actually feels good.

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This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing is off-limits.

Would You Rather: be a webcam girl or have a celebrity hookup? (02:51)

Tash’s real-life celebrity crush and the allure of high-brow intelligence in sex appeal. (03:20)

Fantasies, crush archetypes, and exploring sexual desires through imagination. (08:46)

The debate on camming, authenticity, and the appeal of virtual intimacy. (10:36)

Would You Rather: orgasm from impact play or receive a massage with a happy ending? (14:16)

How slowing down and self-touch rituals can lead to more intense pleasure. (16:17)

Would You Rather: fuck a sex doll or wear a vibrating butt plug? (24:14)

Exploring different toys: vibrators, butt plugs, and the importance of size and comfort. (29:21)

Would You Rather: crawl on a leash or use sex toy beads? (33:12)

Submission Fantasies: crawling, collars, and the dynamic of brat versus obedient roles. (34:52)

Brat Behavior: Power dynamics, role-playing, and the push-pull of domination and submission. (37:08)

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