In this episode of Heart and Soulution, Mike and Kristen Jones critique the claims of a Maryland pastor who says that the Bible does not explicitly forbid sex outside of marriage. The hosts argue that such teachings are false doctrines that contradict clear scriptural mandates regarding holiness and the exclusivity of the marital bond. They emphasize that God designed sexual intimacy as a sacred gift to be enjoyed specifically within marriage, serving as a physical representation of Christ’s relationship with the church. By citing various biblical passages, they highlight that sex is intended for mutual pleasure and bonding, rather than just procreation. The discussion also addresses the "purity culture" of the past, suggesting the church should focus more on the positive beauty of intimacy within God's boundaries. Finally, the couple shares personal anecdotes about their own meeting and early relationship to illustrate the lasting value of a God-centered marriage.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠⁠Married Sex⁠⁠⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.

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• https://churchleaders.com/news/511217-no-limits-baptist-preacher-says-theres-no-biblical-basis-for-abstaining-from-premarital-sex.html

• All scriptures referenced can be accessed through the free Bible app, YouVersion.

• Episode title reference: Beautiful Things, by Benson Boone.

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In this episode from Heart and Soulution, Mike and Kristen Jones interview a young married couple, Ally and Zach, to provide a real-world look at modern relationships. The guests recount their eight-year journey, which began at a Buffalo Wild Wings, survived three years of long-distance dating, and culminated in a 2024 wedding. They share lighthearted stories about a nervous proposal involving a ring hidden in a sock and more serious reflections on their faith-centered ceremony. The discussion also highlights the importance of premarital counseling and the value of having a supportive community to navigate the early years of marriage. Finally, the couple offers advice on intentional communication and shares humorous anecdotes about buying a house and surviving travel mishaps.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠⁠⁠Resource we mentioned: SYMBIS Assessment information https://www.symbis.com/

• Song mentioned: "Love Someone" by Lukas Graham (2018)

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In this episode, Mike and Kristen Jones discuss the physical and psychological advantages of sexual intimacy within a marriage. Drawing from medical journals and personal anecdotes, the couple highlights how regular intimacy can improve cardiovascular health, boost the immune system, and reduce stress by lowering cortisol levels. They candidly address the social taboos surrounding the topic, encouraging couples to view sex as a God-designed tool for both health maintenance and emotional bonding. The conversation emphasizes that consistent frequency fosters a deeper sense of security and mental closeness between partners. To conclude the episode, the hosts share a lighthearted story about their own engagement at a themed restaurant, adding a personal touch to their professional advice.

Disclaimer: The hosts are not medical doctors or scientists. They encourage anyone dealing with trauma, abuse, or serious medical/mental health issues to seek professional help.

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Reference material and Resources to dive deeper:

• ​⁠⁠⁠Married Sex⁠⁠⁠, by Gary Thomas and Debra K. Fileta, published in 2021 by Zondervan publishing, available on Amazon in multiple formats.
• "Sexual Healing"
• • Artist: Marvin Gaye
  • Writers: Marvin Gaye, Odell Brown, David Ritz
  • Label: Columbia/CBS Records
  • Publisher: EMI Blackwood Music Inc. and EMI April Music Inc.
  • Copyright Info: ℗ 1982 Columbia Records, a division of Sony Music Entertainment

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