Your child says “fine,” shrugs, and disappears into their room, and you’re left wondering what you missed. We sit down with international conversation coach Jackie Bailey to unpack why kids and teens often stay quiet even when parents are trying hard, and how small shifts in everyday parenting communication can rebuild confidence fast.

Jackie shares the three conversations every child needs but rarely gets: “I see you,” “Let me try,” and “You’re safe with me.” We talk about how judgment, quick fixes, and big emotional reactions can accidentally silence kids, then we replace those habits with practical tools like curiosity questions, calm responses, and letting kids solve problems with support instead of rescue. You’ll also hear why “How was your day?” is basically a courtesy question, and how better prompts can unlock real stories, feelings, and trust.

We also dig into the modern barrier of phones and social media, including the body-language message we send when we keep a device in our hands. Jackie explains simple connection practices that build self-esteem and communication skills from the inside out: using your child’s name, making eye contact, listening for keywords, and reflecting them back so kids know they matter.

If you’re raising a shy child, dealing with school stress, or just trying to create a home where honest conversations happen, this one gives you a clear path forward. Subscribe, share this with a parent or educator who needs it, and leave a review. What’s one question you’ll ask your child today to help them open up?

Connect with Jackie

Find her on her website here, check out the Speak Feed Lead Facebook page or Instagram page, and listen to the podcast In The Groove with TJ.

Welcome to Speak Out Stand Out — the show where we build confidence in our future, one voice at a time. I’m your host, Elizabeth Green.

I grew up shy, so I know firsthand how life-changing it can be when someone helps you find your voice. Now, I get to help kids and teens do exactly that — and this podcast is a place to share those tools with you.

Each week, I talk with experts and inspiring guests about simple, practical and tangible ways to help the young people in

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