In this episode, we catch up on our week per usual: the heatwave, the struggle of being outside in Winnipeg, exams, sleep deprivation, and the general chaos of trying to function.

We also talk about the kind of life we think we want, the kind of life money would give us, and the versions of ourselves that only show up when we’re imagining a softer life.Then we dive into a dilemma about marriage, emotional cheating, financial imbalance, and in‑laws who are way too involved, before switching gears into the madness happening in Nigeria right now, especially the kidnappings in Oyo State and the government acting like nothing is happening.

If you’d like to send in dilemmas or reach out, email us at theitsthatdeeppodcast@gmail.com.

We're glad you're here and hope you enjoy listening.

~Aanu and Belle

In this episode, we catch up on our very slow week of school, weird people, random library trips, and just trying to stay afloat. We talk about boundaries, knowing our value, and real-life experiences that made us stop and ask ourselves if everybody is truly okay. We read a dilemma about a Lagos roommate who might’ve been involved in a secret society, which, again, is everybody okay?

We also get into a long, funny chat about the MET Gala looks, the Tyla vs. Rihanna conversation, the AMVCA moments, and Drake’s new albums.

If you’d like to send in dilemmas or reach out, email us at theitsthatdeeppodcast@gmail.com.

We're glad you're here and hope you enjoy listening.

~Aanu and Belle xoxo

In today's episode, we catch up on our slow week of migraines, birthdays, and a vampire‑themed party nobody ended up committing to. We get into deeper conversations about fear, death, and the dreams we’re sometimes scared to say out loud, before diving into the usual chaotic dilemmas, including a full pastor‑baby scandal. We also talk about the Klay Thompson and Megan Thee Stallion cheating drama.

At the end of the episode, we also share something special: Aanu's mum’s new book, Yorùbá Dídọ̀rùn, a beginner‑friendly guide to learning Yorùbá in a simple, accessible way. You can grab it here:🇬🇧 UK — https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0GWPG7T3F 🇺🇸 US — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GWPG7T3F 🇨🇦 Canada — https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0GWPG7T3F

If you’re interested in the book or in joining her Yorùbá classes, you can reach out to us at theitsthatdeeppodcast@gmail.com.

We're glad you're here and hope you enjoy listening

~Aanu and Belle xoxo

Some people really know how to make their issues everybody else’s problem, and sometimes all you can do is sit back and say… girl, please. In this episode, we get into insecure energy, jealousy, mixed signals, people moving funny, and the subtle ways people tell on themselves without even realizing it. We talk about insecurity in friendships, attachment styles, projection, and what happens when people are bothered by something they refuse to admit.

If you’ve ever had to read the vibes, trust your instincts, or clock something that nobody else was saying out loud, this one is for you.

We're glad you're here, and we hope you enjoy listening.

~Aanu and Belle xoxo

In this episode, we talk about what happens when love doesn’t align with your standards, and why some people would rather stay and adjust their expectations than admit they’re settling.

From relationships where marriage isn’t even on the table, to changing yourself just to keep someone’s attention, we’re questioning how far is too far when it comes to love.

At what point does compromise become self-abandonment? And are you actually confused, or are you just avoiding what you already know?

We also get into the pressure to perform a version of yourself that isn’t real, and how easy it is to lose clarity when you’re more focused on being chosen than choosing for yourself- amongst so many other talking points.

We're glad you're here, and we hope you enjoy listening.

Your co-hosts, Aanu and Belle, are two friends just figuring life out, talking about everything from relationships, identity, and culture, to the small everyday things that somehow turn into deeper conversations.

In this episode, we share a bit about who we are, how we met, and how our connection naturally turned into the kind of conversations that made us realize...this could actually be a podcast.

We also get into why this podcast exists in the first place. For us, it’s about having real, rounded conversations that don’t just sit on one side of a story. We also dive into some real conversations around relationships, closure, and whether you can truly know someone.

We’re glad you’re here, and we hope you enjoy listening.