We started with corporate jargon and ended up talking about how people hide from decisions, avoid discomfort, and delay change.

We break down (and somehow argue over) what common workplace phrases actually mean, when they’re useful, and when they’re just a way of avoiding decisions.

From there, the conversation shifts into why people stay in jobs, relationships, or situations longer than they should.

Comfort, fear, uncertainty, and the reality of making a move when you don’t know what’s on the other side.

We also get into being wrong. Why people struggle with it, how it shapes behaviour, and how it shows up in parenting and everyday decisions.

In short:

• What corporate jargon actually means in practice
• When it’s useful vs when it’s just avoidance
• Why people stay in situations longer than they should
• Fear of change vs fear of regret
• The role of comfort and familiarity
• Why rejection and uncertainty stop people moving
• How being wrong affects behaviour and decision making
• Parenting, mistakes, and course correcting
• What people model without realising it

Themes include:

Avoidance dressed up as process

Corporate language, over-explaining, delaying decisions — these are often not neutral tools. They are ways of managing discomfort and risk.

Short-term safety vs long-term cost

Whether it’s staying in a job or avoiding a decision, people prioritise immediate stability over long-term improvement, often without realising the trade-off.

Narratives as protection

People construct explanations that allow them to stay where they are without feeling like they’re making a poor decision.

Ego and identity

Admitting you’re wrong is not just about the situation, it’s about what that says about you. That’s why it’s so difficult.

Modelling behaviour

Especially in parenting, but also in leadership, people copy what you do, not what you say. Your behaviour under pressure becomes the lesson.

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We tried something new with this one.

Five fast questions, no prep, no structure, just straight answers and seeing where it goes.

The Five This Week

The decision that almost sent our careers in a completely different direction

What people get wrong about being a good leader

The best advice we’ve been given (and whether we followed it)

What we’d tell our 25-year-old selves now

A belief we used to hold strongly that we’ve completely changed our minds on

Decisions that completely changed direction, advice that stuck (and advice that didn’t), what we'd tell our younger self, and a couple of beliefs we’ve had to completely rethink over time.

There’s a mix of serious and not serious at all.

We’ll see if this format works. If it does, we’ll do it again.

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

Some tricky topics in this episode.

The Bias You're Proudest Of Is the One Holding You Back

We all walk around with filters we've built over a lifetime and most of us would fight to keep them. Christian and Laura unpack why the biases that feel like wisdom are often the ones doing the most damage, and how becoming conscious of them (not eliminating them) is what actually changes everything.

Why Smart People Can't See Their Own Blind Spots

The more analytical you are, the better you are at defending your bias, and why the sharpest people in the room are often the most blind.

Everything Is Possible (When You Stop Looking Through the Keyhole)

If you can only view the world through one small opening, you're missing everything around it. Awareness, not perfection, is the whole game.

The Uncomfortable Truth About Micromanagement Nobody Wants to Hear

Nobody wants to be told that the micromanagement they're complaining about might be their fault. But that's exactly what gets said in this episode.

You Set the Standard by What You Tolerate — Including in Your Own Head

The patterns you keep repeating, the judgments you keep making, the conversations you keep having, they're all data. This episode digs into what those patterns are actually telling you, and why the one thing most worth fixing is the thing most people spend a lifetime avoiding.

Court of UNPOPULAR Opinion

Micromanagement may not be what you think, insecurity is the one thing to fix, and partisan politics is boring.

In short:

• ​Why objectivity is not as common as people think
• ​How bias shapes your decisions
• ​Real examples of blind spots in everyday situations
• ​Why people defend their own thinking
• ​When your patterns start working against you
• ​A different way to approach conversations
• ​Court Of UNPOPULAR Opinion

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

This episode looks at real world situations that many people face at the same time, even if they rarely talk about them openly.

How do you deal with a boss or company with a bad reputation (while protecting your own)?

How do you tackle overwhelm when the to do list gets so big that it crushes you under it?

How do we deal with career, parenting, and ageing parents - often all in the same season?

Very tricky questions and we dealt with them as honestly as we could.

We also launched a new segment, the Court of UNPOPULAR opinion.

1. Spouses should or shouldn't track each other's locations?

2. The workplace is no place for birthday cakes?

3. Holidays are overrated?

Stick around for the verdict.

In Short:

What do you do when the environment around you is not ideal, your workload builds beyond what feels manageable, and life outside of work is demanding more of your time and energy?

The conversation focuses on how to think clearly in these moments. From managing your own position in a complex workplace, to regaining control when everything feels urgent, to making deliberate choices when life becomes full, this episode is about responding with intention rather than reacting to pressure.

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This episode moves through the tension many people are feeling right now. Costs are rising, confidence is falling, and the economic environment has shifted.

We discuss the end of cheap money and how that has changed behaviour across individuals, businesses, and governments. From there, the conversation turns to why everyday life feels more expensive, and what is actually happening beneath the surface.

We then shift to the role of mindset, personal responsibility, and how we can change everything. This is how we acknowledge reality without being defined by it, and finding a way to move with purpose even when conditions are not ideal.

We finish with 5 Ways We Accidently Damage Our Reputations, lessons from the great Tom Cruise, and Laura's pettiness.

In short:

• ​What the end of cheap money means for behaviour and decision making
• ​Survey results from NAB and ANZ on consumer sentiment, lowest in history of recording
• ​Why prices feel (and likely are) permanently higher
• ​How expectations built in the past no longer match current conditions
• ​The role of mindset in changing our entire lives
• ​How Women 'should' respond to being treated badly
• ​Practical ways to focus on what can still be controlled, with gratitude
• ​5 ways we accidently damage our reputations
• ​Lessons from Tom Cruise

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

Ep 54 - A LOT in here on family, negotiation, deal making, first quarter scorecard, and Christian CORNERED on fatherhood.

We start with an honest discussion about fatherhood, what it means, how it changes priorities, and the realities that often go unspoken.

We also go deep on Laura working through her negotiation structure and how negotiation actually works in the real world. We are basing this on real-world experience and try to make it as useful as possible.

We also lament the choices for many young families in Australia.

In short:

• ​How we think about family, time, and priorities more clearly
• ​The difference between responsibility and presence
• ​Why modern life is changing decisions around having children
• ​How to predict where a negotiation will land
• ​Why understanding people matters more than strategy
• ​The importance of mapping stakeholders and incentives
• ​How to expand deals beyond price
• ​Why patience and timing are critical in negotiation
• ​How to navigate ego, pressure, and hidden agendas

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

In this episode, we explore the hidden dynamics that shape how people are perceived at work, from confidence and influence to status anxiety, as well as strong and weak leadership.

We cover ways to handle difficult colleagues, build trust quickly, and tactically position yourself for success.

The conversation also touches on decision making, long-term thinking, and why many people misread what success actually looks like.

In short:

• How to reframe difficult people at work
• Why most “confidence” advice is wrong
• How to think clearly when others are reacting emotionally
• The real meaning of status anxiety (and how to avoid it)
• Practical ways to signal authority without saying a word
• Why high performers often clash with weak leadership
• Tactical ways to navigate that situation without losing momentum
• How to separate what you want from what others project onto you

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

What does it actually mean to “be yourself”?

In this Weekend Edition, we explore the idea that much of modern life requires us to perform, at work, in relationships, and even with ourselves.

From workplace behaviour to parenting to relationships, we explore the tension between authenticity and performance, and whether “being yourself” is actually useful advice at all.

This episode examines:

• ​The concept of authenticity and whether it’s achievable
• ​The role of “masks” in professional and personal life
• ​How self-awareness changes the way we show up
• ​Why pretending isn’t always dishonest — and can sometimes be necessary

A deep discussion on identity, behaviour, and the choices we make about how we present ourselves to the world.

In Short:

• ​00:00 Weekend Edition — no structure, real conversation
• ​02:30 The problem with “being yourself”
• ​07:10 Why everyone is pretending (all the time)
• ​12:40 The idea of “masks” in work and life
• ​18:20 Knowing yourself vs performing
• ​25:00 Parenting, roles, and authenticity
• ​32:10 Can you be fully authentic anywhere?
• ​38:00 Conscious behaviour vs fake behaviour
• ​45:00 The risk of becoming only a role
• ​50:00 Meaning of life — do you choose it?

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