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  • Your Feelings Are Lying To You!
    2026/04/10

    We’ve all said it: “I just feel like…”

    But what if our feelings aren’t telling us the truth?

    In this episode of Living with Boundaries, we dive into one of the most countercultural truths in today’s world—that feelings, while real, are not always reliable. Anchored in Jeremiah 17:9, we unpack what it means when the Bible says the heart is “deceitful above all things” and how that impacts the way we think, react, and make decisions.

    Feelings can be powerful—they can shape our perspective, influence our relationships, and even impact our faith. But when we allow them to lead instead of inform, they can quietly pull us away from truth.

    This episode challenges the idea of “following your heart” and replaces it with something stronger: anchoring your life in truth, even when your feelings disagree.

    If you’ve ever struggled with doubt, insecurity, frustration, or feeling distant from God—this conversation is for you.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    23 分
  • Why Skipping Church Is Costing You More Than You Realize
    2026/03/31

    Church isn’t just a place you go—it’s a community you’re meant to be part of. In this episode, we take a deeper look at why church is essential to a strong, growing faith and how it impacts the way we lead our families and live our lives.

    It’s easy to think we can do faith on our own—watch a sermon online, pray privately, and stay disconnected. But God didn’t design us to walk this journey alone. We were created for community, for accountability, and for encouragement from other believers who are pursuing the same purpose.

    Church isn’t perfect—because people aren’t perfect. There will be challenges, frustrations, and moments where it would feel easier to step away. But growth often happens in those moments. Being part of a church body helps refine us, strengthen us, and remind us that we’re part of something bigger than ourselves.

    We talk about the importance of showing up—not just to receive, but to serve. Because church isn’t just about what we get out of it—it’s about what we bring to it. Our presence, our encouragement, and our willingness to invest in others all matter.

    This episode is a reminder that isolation weakens faith, but community strengthens it. When we commit to being planted in a church, it shapes how we lead our homes, how we handle adversity, and how we stay grounded in our walk with God.

    “Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another…” – Hebrews 10:25

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    24 分
  • A Life Marked by Gratitude
    2026/03/19

    Gratitude isn’t just a reaction—it’s a way of life. In this episode, we take a deeper look at what it truly means to live a life marked by thankfulness, not just when things are going well, but in every season.

    It’s easy to praise God in the wins—the promotions, the victories, the answered prayers. But what about the waiting seasons? The hard moments? The times when God feels silent? Real gratitude is built when we recognize that God is still working, still providing, and still present—even when we don’t fully understand the situation.

    We share personal stories of how God has shown up in both big and small ways, and how looking back helps us see His faithfulness more clearly. Gratitude shifts our perspective—it moves us from focusing on what we lack to trusting in what God has already done and what He promises to do.

    This episode is a reminder that gratitude isn’t based on circumstances—it’s rooted in who God is. When we choose to live with that mindset, it changes how we lead our families, how we face challenges, and how we walk in our faith every day.

    “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    23 分
  • Fear — When Obedience Feels Risky
    2026/03/10

    Fear has a way of keeping us stuck.

    In this episode of Living with Boundaries, Josh and Matt talk about the fears that can stop us from stepping into what God is calling us to do. Sometimes it’s fear of failure. Sometimes it’s fear of what others might think. And sometimes it’s simply the fear of stepping into something new.

    Ironically, they share that even starting this podcast came with fear.

    But through encouragement from each other and the support of the church community around them, they’ve been reminded that God rarely calls us to something comfortable — He calls us to something faithful.

    The Bible reminds us in 1 John 4:18 that “perfect love casts out fear.” When we begin to trust God more than our fears, we discover that obedience is often on the other side of discomfort.

    In this episode they discuss:

    • The fears that keep people from doing what God asks
    • Why stepping out in faith almost always feels risky
    • How Christian community helps us overcome fear
    • Why obedience matters more than comfort

    If you’ve ever felt God nudging you toward something but fear held you back, this conversation is for you.

    1 John 4:18
    "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear…"

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    26 分
  • Screens, Scrolls & Self-Control: Setting Digital Boundaries for the Family
    2026/03/03

    In Episode 5 of Living with Boundaries, Josh and Matt take on one of the biggest parenting challenges today: digital media.

    From smartphones and social platforms to gaming and YouTube, screens aren’t just part of our kids’ lives — they’re shaping them. So how do families set boundaries that protect without overreacting? How do parents teach self-control in a world engineered for distraction?

    Josh and Matt discuss:

    • When (and if) kids should have social media
    • Practical family rules around phones and screen time
    • The impact of algorithms and comparison culture
    • Modeling healthy tech habits as parents
    • Creating guardrails that build trust, not resentment

    They briefly touch on rhythms around food and fitness in the home, but this episode centers on digital boundaries — because if families don’t define them, culture will.

    Strong families don’t drift. They decide.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    23 分
  • Marriage & Maturity: Setting Boundaries for Love That Lasts
    2026/02/24

    In this episode of Living with Boundaries, we tackle a question every parent will eventually face:

    When is the right time for our kids to get married?

    Is it better to marry young and grow together?
    Or wait until careers are established and maturity is fully developed?

    Josh and Matt take different positions in this conversation, referencing the book Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed by Jonathan Pokluda*, and unpack how modern dating culture has shifted expectations around commitment.

    We explore:

    • Cultural pressure to delay marriage
    • The risks of marrying too young
    • The risks of waiting too long
    • Emotional, financial, and spiritual readiness
    • What boundaries parents should set — and which ones they shouldn’t

    This isn’t about controlling our kids’ timelines.

    It’s about raising men and women who are spiritually grounded, emotionally healthy, and ready to build covenant marriages that last.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    26 分
  • Storms We Choose & Storms We Don’t
    2026/02/17

    Life doesn’t always go the way we plan. Sometimes hardship shows up out of nowhere. Other times, we’re walking through something because of our own choices.

    In this episode of Living with Boundaries, Josh and Matt talk about the crummy things that happen in life — the setbacks, the consequences, the disappointments — and how we respond to them as men, husbands, and dads.

    • What do we control?
    • What do we own?
    • What do we surrender?

    Hardship can harden us… or shape us. It can expose weak boundaries — or help us build stronger ones.

    This episode is about responsibility, resilience, and trusting God in both the storms we create and the ones we never saw coming.

    Because living with boundaries doesn’t mean avoiding hardship — it means walking through it the right way.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    21 分
  • Who’s Winning? Sports, Family, and the Cost of Overcommitment
    2026/02/10

    Youth sports can be a great gift — but when practices, games, and travel start driving every decision, something else often gets pushed aside.

    In this episode, Josh and Matt talk honestly about the time demands of youth sports and how easy it is for dads to unintentionally let schedules replace priorities. They challenge us to rethink what we’re saying “yes” to, and where we may need to put up boundaries to better prioritize God, church, marriage, and family.

    This conversation isn’t about quitting sports — it’s about leading with intention, setting the line, and choosing what truly matters in the long run. For dads who want to live their faith out at home, this is a call to slow down, refocus, and keep living with boundaries.

    Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.

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    Strong families don’t happen by accident.
    They’re built with intention — and boundaries.

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    22 分