Pain is unavoidable.

Suffering is optional.

In this episode, Joe talks about what happens when we stop fighting reality — at work and in life — and start dealing with what actually is, instead of what we wish things were.

You’ll hear why negativity is a habit, why waiting for perfect conditions is a trap, and how accepting imperfection is the first step toward real progress.

Now don't get it twisted — this is NOT about lowering your standards.

It’s about doing the work without wasting time, energy and effort on denial.

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Special thanks to the incomparable Lisa Baskett for her amazing late-night-DJ-smoother-than-silk voiceover ;-)

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Each episode explores the human side of UX and product careers — confidence, power, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype. No platitudes. Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.

That panic you feel before speaking up? Or presenting your ideas?

It’s not about your skills.

It's not about how well-rehearsed you are.

And it is absolutely not about your "ability" to speak publicly.

In this episode, Joe breaks down why fear shows up most intensely in public moments — meetings, presentations, moments where you’re seen — and what you're actually doubting when that happens (it's not what you think).

You’ll learn why borrowed scripts never land, why conviction matters more than polish, and how being real is the only thing that creates impact people remember.

This episode is about saying things you actually mean — and trusting that it’s enough.

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Special thanks to the incomparable Lisa Baskett for her amazing late-night-DJ-smoother-than-silk voiceover ;-)

If this episode resonated, consider subscribing to Making UX Work.

Each episode explores the human side of UX and product careers — confidence, power, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype. No platitudes. Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.

There’s more than one way to push back — and not all of them look like confrontation.

In this episode, Joe talks about different styles of influence, why “going along to get along” quietly erodes confidence and how asking better questions can shift power. He builds on the idea that influence doesn’t require force.

You’ll hear how pulling people forward — instead of pushing back — can lower resistance, surface fear, and change the dynamic in the room without escalating conflict. Without triggering defensiveness.

This is about finding your way of asserting yourself — and trusting that it’s valid, even if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s.

It's about asserting yourself without becoming someone you’re not — and learning how to move situations forward in a way that feels honest and sustainable. And once you stop trying to do things the “right” way, something interesting happens:

You start doing them a LOT more effectively.

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Special thanks to the incomparable Lisa Baskett for her amazing late-night-DJ-smoother-than-silk voiceover ;-)

If this episode resonated, consider subscribing to Making UX Work.

Each episode explores the human side of UX and product careers — confidence, power, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype. No platitudes. Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.