If you've ever felt like every diet you've tried was the wrong tool for the job, this episode is for you. You knew deep down it was probably going to let you down again. But you tried it anyway. Because what else were you going to do?

This week's episode is unapologetically nerdy. It's May the 4th, which means it's Star Wars Day. And here's the wild part. The more I worked on this episode, the more I realized Star Wars actually holds the key to weight loss success. I'm not even kidding.

I walk you through six lessons from the saga that change the way you think about food, your body, and the version of you you've been waiting to become. By the end, you'll see why the help you've been searching for has been the wrong help, why your inner critic has been wearing your own face, and why the Force you used to wish was real has been inside you the whole time.

Whether you're a Star Wars superfan or you think Wookiees are a discontinued Girl Scout cookie (they're not, but honestly that would be cool), this episode is for you. The lightsabers are just the costume. The hero's journey is the story of every woman who has ever tried to lose weight.

• Why the help you keep searching for from diets and gurus is asking the wrong question
• The Yoda lesson that the entire first part of my book LIGHT is built on
• Why "I'll try harder Monday" is the trap, not the solution, and what to do instead
• How to recognize when you're fighting yourself instead of fighting your habits
• The difference between the fear path and the love path in weight loss
• A simple practice for trusting your body again, even when the cookies are right there at 9pm

The wisdom, the trust, the Force, the Light, all of it has been inside you the whole time. You don't need a better diet. You need a better relationship with yourself. The work isn't acquiring more rules. It's letting go of the ones that have never served you and remembering what was true when you were six years old and wanted to be a Jedi.

• "I'll be good today."
• "If I had a bad meal, the day is ruined."
• "Maybe THIS diet is the one that finally works."
• "I should already know better by now."
• "Why can't I just stick to it?"
• "Help me, xyz program. You're my only hope."

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