Today I need to share something that happened during what was supposed to be a 1:1 coaching call.

Someone requested time on my calendar. As a coach, I don’t just sit and talk. I LISTEN. I observe. I ask questions. I pay attention so I can serve well.

I speak with people from all over the world, so that part didn’t concern me.

But what started as a coaching request quickly shifted into asking for money for a “ministry.”

There was a lot of spiritual language.
A lot of “Jesus.”
A lot of urgency.

The more questions I asked, the more inconsistencies appeared.
The deeper I listened, the clearer it became.

When I offered to pray instead of sending money… the Zoom call disconnected.

And that told me everything.

Scripture warns us clearly.

“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.”
— Matthew 7:15

“And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light.”
— 2 Corinthians 11:14

Not everyone who says “Jesus” is sent by Jesus.

Discernment is not judgment.
Discernment is protection.

We must guard our hearts.
We must guard our finances.
And we must guard the name of Jesus from being used for financial manipulation.

I’m sharing this not from anger, but from responsibility.

Test the spirits. (1 John 4:1)

And remember this:

If someone is comfortable asking for your money, but uncomfortable receiving your prayer… pay attention.

• Technical issues can disrupt communication but can be overcome.
• Coaching calls can reveal deeper issues of honesty and intent.
• Faith discussions can be sensitive, especially regarding financial needs.
• It's important to confront dishonesty when it arises in conversations.
• Prayer can be a powerful response to those in need.
• Genuine listening is crucial in any conversation.
• Using faith for financial gain can be misleading and harmful.
• People may have different interpretations of faith and honesty.
• Building connections globally can lead to unexpected conversations.
• It's essential to maintain integrity in ministry and coaching.