People pleasing keeps coming back because it works—and that's exactly the problem. In this video, I'm breaking down why every fix you've tried hasn't stuck, what's actually driving the pattern underneath the behavior, and what healing people pleasing really requires (hint: it has nothing to do with setting better limits or saying no more often).

We're going deep on the addiction loop that keeps people pleasing alive, the self-abandonment wound underneath it, and the difference between self-knowledge and self-relationship — because you can know everything about yourself and still be running on empty internally.

I also share how your birth chart can act as a cosmic mirror for this work, helping you see yourself from the inside out instead of through other people's eyes.

If you've been "working on this" for years and can't figure out why it won't shift — this one is for you.

In this video:

• Why people pleasing keeps coming back (and it's not what you think)
• The addiction loop that makes it so hard to stop
• The self-abandonment wound that's really driving it
• Why self-knowledge and self-relationship are not the same thing
• What healing actually looks like in everyday life
• How your birth chart can help you reconnect with yourself

Resources mentioned:

• 🌙 Free Astrology Cheat Sheet — start unpacking your birth chart: https://danasolara.com/cheatsheet
• 📖 Book a reading with Dana: https://danasolara.com/readings

Connect with Dana on TikTok & Instagram: @dana.solara

The astrology of May 2026 brings some wild astrology that's set to change everything–seriously!

Today we're covering what's coming with May's astrology and what it means for your life: Mercury's emotional excavation, the Uranus in Gemini cazimi that changes everything, a healing crisis mid-month, and the fated challenge that lands around May 25th.

Three plotlines. One wild, transformative month. 💥

GET THE FREE MAY FORECAST CALENDAR HERE

In this video, I'm breaking down:

• ✨ The new moon setting the tone on May 1
• 🔮 Mercury's full journey through May, from rabbit hole to cazimi revelation
• 💫 The Uranus in Gemini activations happening May 17–22 and what they're cracking open
• 🌕 The full moon on May 16th and what it's asking you to release
• ⚡ Mars conjunct Chiron's healing potential
• 🚨 The fated challenge on May 25th

🌙This is astrology as a tool for real growth; not just "here's what might happen," but here's what it means and what you can do with it.

CHAPTERS

• 00:00 May 2026 Astrology Forecast: Healing Wounds, Wild Revelations & A Cosmic Rewire
• 02:05 The Three Major Plotlines in May
• 04:03 Free May Forecast Guide
• 04:24 Mercury conjunct Chiron on the Scorpio New Moon
• 07:02 Mercury enters Taurus: Mutual Reception with
• Venus
• 08:52 Mercury in Taurus square Pluto in Aquarius
• 12:26 Mercury sextile Jupiter: May 12
• 14:10 Mercury Cazimi in Taurus: May 14.
• 15:49 Mercury enters Gemini: May 17
• 16:56 Mercury sextile Chiron: May 31
• 18:10 New Moon in Taurus - Mercury conjunct Uranus: May
• 16-17
• 25:29 Uranus Cazimi in Gemini: May 22
• 29:40 The Fated Challenge
• 30:41 Mars Conjunct Chiron: May 16
• 33:43 Sun square Nodes + Mars square Pluto: May 25
• 38:44 Venus square Saturn: May 28

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April 25th, 2026, Uranus moves into Gemini until 2032–and our paradigms are about to be blown up.💥

Uranus hasn't been in Gemini since the 1940s, and most of us have never lived through this energy before (outside of that brief preview window between July and November 2025). It's also the final outer planet to change signs in a series of massive cosmic shifts we've been in the middle of for the last few years.

So yes girl, it's a big deal!

Gemini, a mutable air sign, is activates curiosity, communication, and even comedy. Uranus brings breakthrough, disruption, and innovation. Put them together and you get seven years of radical upgrades to the way you think, speak, express yourself, and relate to ideas.

The next seven years, you'll question the stories you tell yourself, the beliefs you never examined, and the identities you thought were unchangeable.

The invitation is to go with it. Think of improve: saying yes, and with the universe. This is how we co-create with Uranus in Gemini a radical new reality that's more aligned and alive than we ever could've imagined. Instead of bracing for the energy, we build on it.

In this video, I'm breaking down what Uranus in Gemini means for your rising sign specifically, so you can actually use this energy instead of just watching it happen to you. 🫶🏼

Your rising sign horoscope starts here:

0:00 — Introduction: What Uranus in Gemini actually means

3:15 — Aries Rising: Breakthroughs in your daily life and local environment

6:00 — Taurus Rising: Innovating your talents and resources

8:30 — Gemini Rising: A major upgrade to your identity

11:00 — Cancer Rising: Shadow work and the unconscious coming to the surface

14:00 — Leo Rising: Changing your long-term vision and beliefs

16:30 — Virgo Rising: Career pivots and a new kind of independence

19:00 — Libra Rising: Upgrading your beliefs and taking the mic

21:30 — Scorpio Rising: Transforming how you give, receive, and merge

24:00 — Sagittarius Rising: Relationships and communication getting a major overhaul

26:30 — Capricorn Rising: Your work and daily routines are changing

29:00 — Aquarius Rising: Creativity, play, and reclaiming your inner artist

31:30 — Pisces Rising: Home, family, and what groundedness really means

34:00 — Closing thoughts: The one piece of advice for every rising signMentioned in this video:

Free Uranus in Gemini Co-Creation Guide → https://danasolara.com/uranusguideMy full breakdown of Uranus in Gemini over on Nightlight Astrology's YouTube channel — go watch that one too if you want the deeper philosophical context for this transit: https://youtu.be/H55B-UiAY7Y?si=6XtemYNPGFulnrh_

Find me here:

Youtube: https://youtube.com/@dana.solaraIG: https://instagram.com/dana.solaraTiktok: https://tiktok.com/@dana.solaraIf this resonated:

Drop your rising sign in the comments and tell me what landed for you. Seven years is a long time! What are you most ready to disrupt?

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