Knowing your partner’s sexual fantasies has the possibility to be really really hot, or really really off-putting. Fantasy can mean a lot of things to different people—some may want their fantasies to stay in their heads, and some may want to try them out—so if you and your lover aren’t aligned, shit can get tricky. Sex is vulnerable enough already, and if being honest about what gets you off brings you closer together, we’re all for that. But if you uncover some freaky secrets… just know that you can never unlearn them.

Mid-day masturbation [3:01]

The effort of sexting [4:36]

AI in advertising [7:53]

Sharing your fantasies with your partner [13:10]

There are some kinks you may not want to know [15:34]

Knowing too much about your partner [19:14]

What’s the utility in sharing? [21:26]

Minimum effective dosing [24:44]

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Trying to find love has been a shit show since… well, forever. We’re just getting better and better with age, but the dating scene, and let’s be honest, men in general, seem to be getting worse. Dating apps are dead, singles events make us feel like pigs being sold for slaughter, and meeting someone out in the wild is next to impossible. Even if you meet someone, the chance that they know what they want in a relationship, are emotionally mature, AND you find them attractive is rare, too. All that said, we’re still holding on to hope that the right person is out there. Cynicism feels safe, but we still believe in magic.

We’re too old and tired for NYC [2:05]

A less than stellar AI event [6:51]

No more ice-breaker activities [15:24]

Lore-dumping [20:19]

Living your “truth” [23:21]

Men aren’t suffering enough [25:15]

The state of dating apps [30:02]

Attempting to stay optimistic [35:10]

Safety in cynicism [37:01]

Love can’t be understood via algorithm [41:01]

Where do you even meet people now? [42:20]

Re-building communities [45:36]

Marketing ourselves [51:43]

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We would probably all agree that listening in on your partner’s therapy sessions or reading their journals is wrong, but what about reading their ChatGPT history? More and more people are working through issues in their personal lives using their AI chatbots as a journal-meets-therapist, and that might include relationship issues. And when someone inevitably finds some less than flattering information about themselves typed out to their partner’s own personal robot… shit gets sticky. Everyone is entitled to their privacy, but with new technologies, do new lines need to be drawn?

Walking around with a lady boner [1:02]

A very special wedding [7:30]

Being seen from your bad side [13:35]

Seeing your partner’s ChatGPT history [16:45]

An erosion of safety [20:12]

Is there an obligation to communicate every little issue? [23:28]

Eavesdropping on someone’s therapy [29:39]

The dangers of substituting therapy with AI [31:21]

We should all share less [34:41]

Owning your thoughts and feelings [36:21]

I Stumbled Across My Boyfriend's ChatGPT and It Ended Our Relationship - Lindsay Hall Writes

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