If you have zero dating experience and you want to find the right partner, this episode gives you six tools for late bloomers to start dating successfully.

From zero experience to finding the right partner, without the patriarchal nonsense or the spiral.

• Step one is dropping the shame — and the actual skill that makes that possible (hint: it's not positive thinking, and it's not logic)
• Step two is figuring out what you want, even if you've never been in a relationship. You have more information than you think.
• Step three is the one or two questions that tell you almost immediately whether someone is worth your time
• Step four is a dating app strategy that won't drain you: one app, 20 minutes a day, no notifications, and you stay the CEO
• Step five is IRL dating — including the version that costs nothing and starts this week
• Step six is the habit that most people skip, and that's the reason they stay stuck

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Finding love isn't just luck or timing.

It comes down to two learnable skills. Episode 269 of The Feminist Dating Show breaks both of them down so you can start practicing today.

Inside this episode:

✨ The reason going on more dates won't get you closer to the right person. Dating is not a numbers game. It's an act of self-trust.

✨ Proximity to aligned opportunity: why most people are either paralyzed by fear or doing dating busy work, and what to do instead.

✨ Courageous behavior in the face of opportunity: shooting your shot, blessing and releasing fast, asking for what you want on a first date. That's not too much. That's main character energy.

✨ Women who self-silence during conflict are four times more likely to die prematurely. These two skills aren't just how you find love. They're how you stop silencing yourself once you're in it.

Work with Lily:

📖 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book

🌟 Join the Main Character Dating waitlist: https://datebrazen.com/dating

✨ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

If you want to date men AND you want to decenter men...

This week's episode of The Feminist Dating Show (episode 268) is a giant permission slip. Because most dating advice is telling you to go on more dates, give more people a chance, stop being so picky. And all of that is designed to exhaust you into settling. (and you deserve more)

Decentering men doesn't mean never dating a man again. It means stopping the habit of using the wrong men as evidence against your desires. It means re-centering yourself, your desires, and your preferences.

And it is the fastest path to finding the right person.

Inside episode 268, you'll learn:
✨ Why most men are going to be wrong for you (and why that's actually good news)
✨ How to stop using past emotionally unavailable men as a weapon against what you want
✨ The three tactical steps to decenter men and filter fast toward the right ones
✨ Why being self-centered in dating will help you find love faster

Your desire is evidence that what you want exists. This episode will help you believe that and live it.


Work with Lily:

📖 Get the book: Thank You, More Please

🌟 Join the MCD waitlist: https://datebrazen.com/dating

✨ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook