What exactly do sports teach us emotionally?

In this episode, Taylor and Jihad explore sports as more than competition or entertainment. From team culture and coaching to vulnerability, resilience, identity, and emotional expression, they unpack why sports can become one of the few socially accepted places where people fully experience the highs and lows of being human.

They discuss:

• Why sports create space for emotional expression
• The psychological differences between team sports and individual sports
• Healthy team culture vs toxic “bro culture”
• Vulnerability, public failure, and performance
• Coaching, accountability, and emotional development
• Why shared struggle creates connection
• Fanaticism, fandom, and identity
• The emotional lessons hidden inside competition
• The psychology behind “pulling the goalie”
• What sports can teach people about resilience, belonging, and growth

Along the way, they also tell stories about Boy Scouts, basketball, cycling, coaching young athletes, traveling to Lakers games, and the strange ways humans bond through hardship and absurdity.

The Emotional Men Podcast is real conversations about psychology, therapy, relationships, identity, and the messy business of being human.

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What happens when facts and feelings don’t line up?

In this episode, Taylor is joined by organizational psychology professional Jihad Sakhnini for a wide-ranging conversation about how people actually make decisions. Not just logically, and not just emotionally, but somewhere in between.

They explore the difference between what’s true and what’s real, why feelings can feel like facts, and how curiosity becomes the key tool for navigating both without getting stuck. Along the way, they dig into self-awareness, relationships, internal dialogue, and why most people skip the step that actually leads to better decisions.

This isn’t about choosing facts or feelings. It’s about learning how to work with both.

• The difference between facts, feelings, and lived experience
• Why feelings feel true (even when they’re not)
• The role of curiosity in decision-making
• How people jump from sensation to certainty
• Why noticing your body matters more than you think
• The gap between what’s true and what’s real
• How internal dialogue shapes perception
• Why most people struggle with “yes,” “no,” and everything in between
• The concept of “scared yes” vs. “sad no”
• How relationships improve when you stop assuming and start exploring

• You don’t have to choose between facts and feelings. You just need curiosity to navigate both
• Feelings aren’t facts, but they are real data about your experience
• Most people skip curiosity and go straight to interpretation, and that’s where problems start
• Learning to notice before you assign meaning gives options for action
• Clear decisions often come from understanding your internal signals, not ignoring them

• The difference between truth and personal reality
• Why high performers focus on what they feel, not what they assume it means
• How curiosity creates space for better conversations and decisions

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What does it actually mean to be successful, and what happens once you get there?

In this episode, Taylor and Pete break down the idea of managing success, moving past surface-level definitions like money and status to explore something more complicated: choice, effort, timing, and the role of luck.

They dig into why most people struggle to define what they want, how success often shows up as a process rather than a moment, and why opportunity alone doesn’t guarantee anything. From career pivots to missed chances to the uncomfortable reality of privilege, this conversation challenges the idea that success is purely earned or purely accidental.

The episode also explores a key tension: is success defined by outcomes, or by the effort and intention behind them? And what happens when the thing you thought you wanted turns out not to fit once you get there?

This is a grounded, honest look at success without the usual “grind mindset” nonsense. Just two therapists trying to make sense of how people actually build lives that work.

• Why most people can’t clearly define success
• The difference between being lucky and being successful
• How opportunity becomes something meaningful (or gets wasted)
• Success as a process vs. a single moment
• The role of effort, intention, and outcome
• Why rigid goals can block growth
• When to stay the course vs. when to pivot
• The connection between success and choice
• Personal vs. professional success, and when they conflict
• How relationships and lived experience shape what success actually feels like

• Success isn’t something you stumble into. You build it over time
• Luck creates opportunity, but action determines what happens next
• If you don’t define success for yourself, you’ll chase someone else’s version
• Effort matters, even when outcomes don’t match expectations
• Pivoting isn’t failure. It’s often necessary
• The ability to choose how you spend your time is a major form of success
• What you gain along the way may matter more than the original goal

• Pete shares a major career decision that shaped his path
• Taylor reflects on how a chance encounter led him into therapy
• A discussion on why lottery winners often lose everything
• The idea that success can come from what you gain, not just what you achieve
• A real-time debate: is success outcome-based or effort-based?

The Emotional Men Podcast is two therapists talking about mental health, human behavior, and what it actually looks like to live a meaningful life.

Taylor McCarrey and Pete Kingsley bring a mix of professional experience, personal stories, and straight-up honesty to conversations about growth, relationships, and the messiness of being human.

Email: emotionalmenpc@gmail.com

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