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NFL Draft day is supposed to feel like a finish line. For most men, it feels like a test of identity. Pastor Ed sits down with his lifelong friend and former NFL standout, Brian Holloway, to talk about the pressure behind the NFL Draft, the calls you hope you get, and the silence you fear, plus what all of it reveals about who we are when our biggest dream is on the line.

We swap stories from the old-school league, from helmets that offered “not much protection” to the chaos of draft-day promises, trades, and sudden dead phone lines. Then we zoom out to the truth fans rarely hear: getting drafted does not mean you have made the team. Training camp, cut day, and the fight to belong expose a deeper need for every man, athlete or not: a core identity rooted in being a beloved son of God, not a job title, platform, or paycheck.

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What if the best thing you can give your kids is not another lecture, but a better reason? Pastor Ed sits down with philosopher and theologian JP Moreland for a candid, practical conversation about fatherhood, discipleship, and Christian apologetics—the kind that helps real families handle real questions.

JP tells the story of meeting Jesus in college after hearing thoughtful evidence for Christianity, including the New Testament's historical reliability and the case for Christ’s resurrection. From there, we talk about why so many young people don’t just leave a church building, they leave the faith, and how “anti-intellectual” habits can quietly teach our sons and daughters that questions are dangerous. We argue for a better model: love God with all your mind, and let that shape the way you lead at home.

We cover moral relativism, the modern misuse of “tolerance”, and how to speak truth with compassion in tough conversations, including stories that show why listening often reveals the deeper wound underneath the debate. If you care about raising resilient kids, navigating college culture, and building a Christian worldview that actually holds up, this one is for you.

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You can feel it in the air right now: families are tense, churches are divided, and it’s easier than ever to slap a label on someone and call it wisdom. We wanted to go deeper than hot takes, so we sat down with Alexander Fenter, a South African pastor and author of Doing Reconciliation, to talk about what biblical peacemaking actually looks like when life is messy and relationships are fractured.

Alexander grew up white under apartheid and describes the slow awakening from privilege to conscience, and the moment God confronted him with a hard line: “You are your brother’s keeper.” From there, we unpack shalom, the Bible’s vision of peace as wholeness and right relationship, not conflict avoidance. We talk about reconciliation with God, with ourselves, with one another, and with creation, and why the gospel changes how we see “the other,” whether that’s race, politics, class, or the person who hurt us.

If you want Christian fatherhood that’s honest, healing, and strong, this conversation will give you language and next steps.

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