This is one of those episodes that takes a little courage both to make, and perhaps to listen to. But we think you'll come away from it feeling more informed, less alone, and ready to take at least one step you've been putting off.

Death and end of life planning are topics most of us avoid. Add childlessness into the mix and the silence gets even louder because so much of the information, guidance and legal framework out there assumes that you have someone: a child, a close family member, someone who knows you and will step in when the time comes. For a growing number of people, that assumption simply doesn't hold.

In this episode we bring together three guests with distinct and complementary expertise to have the conversation that so many childless adults need and so rarely get.

In this episode we cover:

• What end of life planning actually means, from advanced care planning right through to after death

• Powers of attorney: what they are, how they work, and crucially, what your options are if you don't have someone you trust to appoint

• Advanced Statements and Advanced Decisions to Refuse Treatment and why Penny argues these matter more than most people realise

• The concept of social death and how childlessness shapes the experience of ageing and loss

• What happens to your belongings and why recording the provenance of meaningful items matters

• The gap in legal guidance around local authority funerals and why it urgently needs updating

• Why there is currently no central register of wills in England and Wales and what that means for people who die alone

• The role of animals in later life, and the organisations that can help

• Assisted dying legislation: what it means (and doesn't mean) for powers of attorney right now

Our guests:

Charlotte Dixon — wills and probate solicitor and lifetime lawyer

Professor Gail Letherby — sociologist and researcher specialising in childlessness, identity and the life course

Penny Shepherd — coordinator of Ageing Without Children East Kent and trustee of the Ageing Without Children (AWOC) charity

Please note: Nothing in this episode constitutes personal legal or financial advice. Laws and frameworks vary by country and region, always do your own research and consult a qualified professional for advice specific to your circumstances.

Resources and links mentioned:

Ageing Without Children (AWOC): awoc.org

Office of the Public Guardian (England & Wales): gov.uk/opg

National Will Register: nationalwillregister.co.uk

The Cinnamon Trust: cinnamon.org.uk

Cats Protection: cats.org.uk

Dogs Trust: dogstrust.org.uk

Ashes to Admin: Stories from the Caseload of a Local Authority Funeral Officer by Evie King

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What happens when a writer decides to break the silence around childlessness, but not with a neat resolution, but through the voices of two women whose stories span 4,000 years?

In this episode, Berenice and Michael are joined by Byddi Lee. She is the author of Barren (shortlisted for the 2025 Carousel Aware Prize for Independent Authors), The Rejuvenation Trilogy, and March to November. She has published flash fiction, short stories, and co-founded and manages the spoken word event Flash Fiction Armagh. Byddi also writes for stage and screen. Her climate-change play Toxic Relationships has been performed by Armagh Theatre Group in venues across Ireland regularly since 2023. Byddi is a member of BBC Writersroom Voices 23, is an Arts Council Northern Ireland supported writer and holds professional membership at the Irish Writers Centre in Dublin and the Society of Authors, UK.

For more information, visit www.ByddiLee.com.

In this episode of The Full Stop, we are joined by Civilla Morgan, one of the earliest and most influential voices in the childless not by choice podcasting space. After ten years and 180 episodes, she shares her decision to step away from her podcast, a choice shaped by grief, timing, work, and deep self-reflection.

Together, we explore the emotional weight of long-term podcasting, the stories behind consistent content creation, and how grief can fundamentally change the decisions we make about our lives. Civilla reflects on what she’s learned about childlessness over a decade of conversations, including the shared undercurrent of grief that binds the community, even as each journey remains deeply individual.

We also talk about visibility, why so many people remain “hidden in plain sight,” the frustration of still being asked the same questions after years of advocacy, and why representation across many platforms and voices truly matters. Civilla speaks candidly about rest, redirection, and choosing to live a meaningful life even when the life you imagined didn’t happen.

This is an honest, generous conversation about endings, legacy, healing, and the courage it takes to know when something meaningful has run its course. For more information, to join our online Community for childless people and appear on the Full Stop podcast please visit our website