He was bleeding out… and didn’t even know he was dying.

In this powerful conversation, war journalist and bestselling author Sebastian Junger shares the moment he came face-to-face with death and what he discovered on the other side.

From a sudden internal hemorrhage to a near-death experience that challenged everything he believed, Junger takes us deep into the edge between life and death… and back again.

But this episode isn’t just about dying, it’s about how to live.

Here’s what you’ll take away:

• Why facing death can completely reset your priorities
• What near-death experiences reveal about consciousness
• Why modern life is making us feel more alone than ever
• The hidden power of “tribe” and human connection
• A simple question that can change how you live every day

This isn’t just about dying. It’s about finally understanding how to live.

👉 Watch now.

Timestamps:

01:45 Thoughts on death and accepting mortality

03:50 Aneurysm story and war reporting background

06:34 Internal bleeding and race to the hospital

08:00 Near-death vision and seeing his father

11:28 Emergency procedure and survival

13:36 ICU realization and trauma of almost dying

15:50 Sacred vs scary perspective on death

18:27 Atheism, consciousness, and reality questions

21:20 Science vs mystery of near-death experiences

26:11 Shared patterns in near-death experiences

30:45 Personal transformation after near-death

33:10 Living with awareness of mortality

36:40 Rituals of death and cultural perspectives

38:41 Tribe, belonging, and modern isolation

42:04 Solutions for rebuilding the connection

45:24 Life lessons and meaning of tribe and love

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

👉To learn more about Junger's tribe, check out this link: https://sebastianjunger.substack.com/

#SebastianJunger #SebastianJungerInterview #NearDeathExperience #NearDeathExperienceStory #WhatHappensWhenYouDie #LifeAfterDeath #Consciousness #DeathAndDying #MeaningOfLife #HumanConnection #Belonging #Tribe #ModernLoneliness #PsychologyOfBelonging #PersonalGrowth

Anarchism isn’t chaos. It might be the key to better leadership.

In this thought-provoking episode, Chip speaks with Ari Weinzweig, co-founder of Zingerman’s, a company that grew from a $22,000 deli into an $80M family of businesses built on an unconventional idea: trust people, give them dignity, and rethink hierarchy.

Ari shares the surprising philosophy that shaped Zingerman’s culture and explains why many traditional leadership models miss what really motivates people.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What anarchism can teach us about leadership
• Why dignity should be the foundation of every workplace
• The beliefs that quietly shape every leadership decision

• Why there is no single “number one rule” in business

This conversation will challenge how you think about leadership, organizations, and human potential.

👉 Watch the full episode to discover the radical philosophy behind Zingerman’s success.

Timestamps:

05:52 Ari Weinzweig and long friendship

06:47 Ari’s background studying anarchism

09:42 Discovering a passion for restaurant work

11:26 The origin story of Zingerman’s

13:16 Growth of the Zingerman’s businesses

13:56 What anarchism means for leadership

18:46 The importance of leadership philosophy

23:45 Values, beliefs, and mission in business

24:46 The Revolution of Dignity concept

33:45 Advice to his younger self

35:48 Life skills vs. traditional education

37:03 Creation of ZingTrain

42:52 Supporting employees to succeed

44:24 Radical wisdom and authentic leadership

46:00 The concept of deep understanding

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

👉 To learn more about Ari’s latest book and the Apricots for Dignity and Democracy initiative he mentioned in the podcast, check out these links:

• From Founder to Future: A Business Roadmap to Impact, Longevity, and Employee Ownership https://a.co/d/0bBYKIIl

• https://undergroundshirts.com/groups/apricots-for-dignity-and-democracy

#Leadership #Anarchism #AnarchistLeadership #BusinessLeadership #LeadershipPhilosophy #ServantLeadership #WorkplaceCulture #Zingermans #AriWeinzweig #ModernLeadership #FutureOfLeadership #EntrepreneurMindset #OrganizationalCulture #RadicalLeadership #BusinessPodcast

Most people imagine a midlife crisis as sports cars, bad decisions, and dramatic life changes. But what if midlife is actually something much deeper and more meaningful?

In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley explores what really happens during midlife and why men and women often experience it differently. Chip shares insights from years of research and thousands of midlife transitions, revealing the real challenges people face in their 40s, 50s, and beyond.

In this conversation, you’ll learn:

• Why midlife is often a feeling of being stuck, not a crisis
• The hidden struggles men face, including hormonal decline, loneliness, and loss of purpose
• Why many women experience invisibility and financial pressure in midlife
• How menopause, andropause, and identity shifts reshape relationships and self-confidence
• Why the real question in midlife becomes “How will you invest your wisdom?”

If you’re navigating midlife, or preparing for it, this episode offers a powerful new way to understand this stage of life.

Watch the episode to see how midlife can become a turning point, not a breakdown.

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to Wisdom Wednesday

00:30 When Organizations Go Through Midlife

03:17 Change Management vs. Transition Management

05:00 Hormones and Andropause in Men

07:38 Career and Financial Disappointment

08:22 Growing Irrelevance in Midlife

09:20 Male Loneliness and Social Disconnection

10:06 Loss of Purpose After Career Changes

10:47 Low Testosterone and Men’s Health

13:55 Self-Esteem and Midlife Relationships

15:17 The Pain of Becoming Irrelevant

17:23 Menopause and Hormonal Changes for Women

19:34 The Pressure of Conventional Beauty

20:38 Invisibility in Dating and Work

22:04 Financial Challenges for Women

22:55 The Burden of Endless Caregiving

23:34 Hormone Replacement Therapy Debate

26:37 Communication in Relationships

27:19 Final Advice for Navigating Midlife

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#midlifecrisis #midlifetransition #midlifechanges #menvswomen #midlifepsychology #perimenopause #menopause #andropause #midlifeloneliness #midlifepurpose #agingandpurpose #modernelderacademy #chipconley #midlifeidentity #midlifeawakening

Why do so many relationships lose intimacy over time, even when love is still there?

In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley talks with renowned couples therapist Terry Real, creator of Relational Life Therapy and bestselling author of Fierce Intimacy and The New Rules of Marriage. For decades, Terry has helped couples understand why connection fades—and how to rebuild it.

In this conversation, he explains:

• Why love requires skills most people were never taught
• How childhood patterns quietly shape adult relationships
• Why traditional masculinity often blocks emotional intimacy
• How couples can reignite connection in midlife

Terry argues that relationships don’t fail because people stop caring, they fail because no one teaches us how to do intimacy well.

Watch the episode to learn the relationship skills that can change everything.

Timestamps:

01:30 Terry Real joins from Anguilla

03:01 What is Relational Life Therapy (RLT)

03:54 Why RLT takes sides in couples therapy

06:18 The core principles of RLT

08:14 Trauma triggers and childhood patterns in relationships

11:59 What holds men back in relationships

15:04 Redefining masculinity for intimacy

16:25 Patriarchy and the modern relationship crisis

18:23 Relational joy vs gratification culture

22:44 Reigniting intimacy as empty nesters

27:03 Why couples must confront resentment

29:46 Independence vs connection in long-term relationships

33:24 Are you really happy in your relationship

36:53 Why relationships require practice and skill

40:08 Wisdom bumper sticker

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#midliferelationships #relationshipadvice #intimacy #modernrelationships #couplestherapy #loveskills #relationshipskills #midlifechrysalis #emotionalintimacy #terryreal #relationshipgrowth #relationshipproblems #communicationinrelationships #longtermrelationships #midlifelove

The moment that breaks your life can also be the moment that transforms it.

In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley sits down with comedian and writer Pete Holmes for a deep and surprisingly funny conversation about heartbreak, spirituality, and the search for meaning. Pete shares how a painful divorce in his twenties pushed him to fully commit to comedy and set him on a journey into consciousness, psychedelics, fatherhood, and what it really means to live a good life.

In this episode, Pete reveals:

• How his divorce became the turning point that changed his life and career
• Why humor may be one of the most powerful tools for healing
• What psychedelics taught him about consciousness and awareness
• Why midlife can actually be the most meaningful chapter of life
• The life-changing idea: don’t believe everything you think

Warm, honest, and thought-provoking, this conversation explores how laughter and self-awareness can transform even life’s hardest moments.

👉 Watch the full episode to hear Pete Holmes’ story and discover why humor might be the secret to a better life.

Timestamps:

03:46 Is Pete Christian Comedian?

06:25 Was Jesus Funny?

09:04 Humor Humility and Getting Older

10:44 Can You Train Your Sense of Humor?

13:41 Why Midlife Is Actually Better

15:36 Fatherhood and Life in His 40s

19:52 Turning 47 and the Happiness Curve

20:59 Divorce at 28 and the Turning Point

26:17 Why Comedy Exploded After 9/11

30:42 Humor as Healing for Pain

31:54 Comedy Is Saying What Everyone Thinks

35:46 Aging What Gets Worse and What Gets Better

39:50 Psychedelics and Spiritual Awakening

46:39 Bringing Spirituality Into Comedy

49:48 Pete Holmes’ Best Life Advice

54:33 Relationship Advice That Actually Works

56:19 Final Thoughts and Richard Rohr

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#PeteHolmes #MidlifeChrysalis #MidlifeWisdom #ComedyPodcast #PeteHolmesInterview #StandUpComedy #SpiritualityAndComedy #MidlifeGrowth #PersonalGrowthPodcast #PsychedelicInsights #RichardRohr #LifeLessonsPodcast #ConsciousComedy #SpiritualAwakening #SelfDiscovery

What if the most powerful move you could make at midlife… is to pause?

In this episode of Wisdom Wednesday, Derek sits down with Chip Conley to explore the rise of the midlife sabbatical and why more people over 50 are choosing a reset instead of racing toward retirement.

Chip challenges the old “learn, earn, retire” model and introduces a new idea: the midlife pit stop — a courageous break to refuel before the next chapter.

In this conversation, you’ll learn:

• Why a sabbatical isn’t a vacation. It’s renewal
• How stepping away can strengthen your career and relationships
• What Chip discovered during his own two-year break
• How to design a meaningful month off, even if a year feels impossible

Midlife isn’t about slowing down. It’s about getting intentional.

If this resonates, share it with someone who might need a reset and subscribe for more Wisdom Wednesday insights.

Timestamps:

00:05 Spring Travel Chat & Baja Living

05:34 The Rise of the Midlife Gap Year

11:20 The Midlife Atrium Concept

13:15 Why Employers Should Support Sabbaticals

17:14 Starting Small with a Gap Weekend

18:07 Chip’s Two-Year Sabbatical Experience

23:13 Ego, Curiosity, and Deepened Friendships

24:31 How to Design a One-Month Sabbatical

26:58 Saving for a Midlife Pit Stop

29:19 Escaping One-Dimensional Living

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#MidlifeReset #MidlifeSabbatical #MidlifeGapYear #SecondAct #LifeAfter50 #CareerBreak #SabbaticalLife #WorkLifeBalance #RetirementRedefined #PersonalGrowthJourney #EmptyNestLife #ReinventYourLife #MidlifeTransformation #PurposeAfter50 #ChipConley

Most of us try to solve midlife. What if that’s exactly the wrong approach?

In this episode, Chip Conley sits down with Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, the minds behind Designing Your Life, to rethink one of the most misunderstood seasons of adulthood. Drawing from design thinking, human curiosity, and decades of real-world experimentation, they offer a refreshing alternative to the pressure of “figuring it all out.”

Instead of chasing the right answer, Bill and Dave invite us to prototype our way forward gently, curiously, and without fear of getting it wrong.

Key insights from the conversation:

• Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s a chrysalis, a space for becoming
• There is no single “right” life, only many good lives you can design
• Stop solving your life and start prototyping small experiments
• Curiosity matters more than certainty
• Meaning isn’t found in big answers, but in everyday moments of flow

This is a hopeful, grounding conversation for anyone who feels stuck, restless, or quietly ready for what’s next.

👉 Click to watch and discover how to design the next chapter of your life without pressure, panic, or pretending.

Timestamps:

03:48 What Designing Your Life is

06:55 What is design thinking

09:22 Designing yourself as a wicked problem

10:20 Gravity problems and anchor problems

12:32 Opening the aperture of choice

14:03 Applying design thinking to midlife

16:49 Creativity and reinvention after success

18:03 Are midlifers more stuck than younger people

19:14 Permission to change in midlife

21:50 Prototyping your next chapter

24:08 Self-criticism fear and resistance

25:00 Learning to be incompetent again

27:49 Personal midlife transitions

31:14 Dark night of the soul

36:53 Introducing the meaning book

38:11 Designing meaning in everyday life

40:21 Redesigning midlife as a culture

44:01 Rethinking work and education

48:25 Reframing midlife identity

52:07 Wisdom bumper stickers

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#MidlifeChrysalis #DesignYourLife #MidlifeTransition #FindingPurpose #SecondHalfOfLife #LifeDesign #MidlifeMeaning #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeReinvention #DesignThinking #CareerTransition #CuriosityMindset #ModernElder #MidlifeWisdom #LifeAfter40

Real growth rarely happens when life feels comfortable. It begins when we slow down, question our patterns, and face the deeper truths about how we live and lead.

In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley talks with Diana Chapman, leadership coach and co-author of The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership. Drawing from decades of coaching founders and CEOs, Diana shares practical wisdom on how awareness can transform relationships, leadership, and personal growth.

In this conversation, she explores:

• How the Drama Triangle fuels conflict and how to step out of it
• Why playfulness is essential in long-term relationships
• The difference between your zone of excellence and your zone of genius
• Why midlife transformation often requires quiet and surrender

The episode also turns deeply personal as Chip reflects on mortality, purpose, and stepping away from constant busyness to reconnect with what matters most.

Watch the full episode to explore what a true midlife chrysalis can look like.

Timestamps:

03:43 Diana’s path to conscious leadership

07:37 Teach the Class tool

09:03 The Drama Triangle explained

10:43 Personas and playful awareness in relationships

12:31 Lessons from a 44-year marriage

14:32 The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership

16:55 Conscious leadership in today’s polarized world

17:53 The new book No Drama Teams

22:05 Trust vs threat in team dynamics

24:26 Coaching leaders through crisis

27:53 What makes a great coach

33:10 Discovering your zone of genius

36:28 Diana’s midlife chrysalis experience

39:42 Chip’s idea for a “month of dying” retreat

44:20 Lessons from a founder facing death

46:04 The value of fallow ground and quiet time

47:18 Designing a life of aliveness

48:36 Wisdom vs knowledge in the age of AI

49:26 Diana’s wisdom bumper sticker

50:21 Childhood truth and trusting your inner knowing

52:30 Reflections on truth, growth, and love

55:17 Closing reflections and invitation to the workshop

Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

#DianaChapman #ConsciousLeadership #15CommitmentsOfConsciousLeadership #DramaTriangle #ConsciousLeadershipGroup #ZoneOfGenius #LeadershipCoaching #ConsciousLeadershipTools #NoDramaTeams #LeadershipMindset #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLeadership #LeadershipTransformation #ConsciousLiving #MidlifeChrysalis