『The Mother's Day Episode Nobody Talks About — Grief, Estrangement & Love That Doesn't Stop | EP110』のカバーアート

The Mother's Day Episode Nobody Talks About — Grief, Estrangement & Love That Doesn't Stop | EP110

The Mother's Day Episode Nobody Talks About — Grief, Estrangement & Love That Doesn't Stop | EP110

無料で聴く

ポッドキャストの詳細を見る
PARENTAL ALIENATION & MOTHER'S DAY GRIEF — Your complicated feelings about today are completely valid. If Mother's Day feels heavier than it looks on your feed right now, this episode is for you. Natalie McCabe is sharing two layers of personal grief she's never fully talked about publicly — losing her mom on Mother's Day 27 years ago, and the silence from her daughter that's been stretching since November 2021. This isn't a brunch-and-bouquets episode. It's an honest hour for every mom whose family is messy, whose love has nowhere to land, and who just needs to hear: you are not alone. WHAT'S INSIDE THIS EPISODE: Why Mother's Day isn't the happiest day of the year for millions of moms — and why pretending otherwise is making it worseNatalie's raw story of losing her mom at 50 years old, on Mother's Day itself, and what that grief taught her about strengthWhat it actually feels like to love a child who isn't speaking to you — and why the shame around it is a lieThe research on parental alienation and family estrangement that proves you are part of a much larger, silent community (22 million parents in the US alone)What Oprah's viral podcast episode on 'no contact' families got people saying — and the voices of moms who finally felt seenHow to hold unconditional love AND take care of yourself at the same time — not as opposites, but as survivalA heartfelt dedication to a friend who passed away in April — also estranged from her daughter — and what her story says about time WHY THIS MATTERS TO YOU: You're scrolling your phone and every ad, every reel, every restaurant sign is telling you today is supposed to feel a certain way. But you woke up to silence — no text, no call, not even a meme — and there's this particular kind of grief that doesn't have a casserole brigade or a sympathy card. Society doesn't really have a ritual for mourning someone who is still alive, who might be perfectly fine, but who for whatever reason just isn't in your life right now. You've probably been told to detach. Let go. Move on. And you understand why people say that — you really do. But for a lot of us, that advice lands like someone telling us to just stop loving our kid, as if love came with an off switch behind our left ear. You've tried. It's not that simple. And it's not supposed to be. This episode won't fix it. But hearing Natalie say 'I'm living this too' — and knowing that 1 in 3 Americans is carrying some version of family estrangement right now — might make the quiet feel a little less like something is wrong with you. Because nothing is wrong with you. --- KEY TAKEAWAYS: Ambiguous loss is real grief. When a person is still alive but absent from your life, researchers compare the pain to bereavement — because in many ways, it is. Give yourself permission to grieve it that way.Shame is not a fact. The assumption that 'if your child isn't talking to you, you must have done something terrible' is a cultural script — not a truth. Estrangement is almost always complicated, and it is rarely a clean villain-and-victim story.You can love someone unconditionally AND take care of yourself in their absence. These are not opposites. They're how you survive the long stretch.Time is not neutral — Natalie's friend passed away in April, still estranged from her daughter after eight years. If you're holding something unsaid, today is a good day to write the letter, even if you never send it.You don't have to perform happiness today. It's okay to celebrate, okay to grieve, or okay to just let the day pass quietly. All of it is valid. READY TO GO DEEPER? >> FREE COACHING CALL — Not sure where to start? Book a free 30-minute call with Natalie. No strings. Just real support: nataliemccabe.com >> FREE COMMUNITY — Join the Mom Life Uncomplicated community of moms who get it. Share, support, breathe: nataliemccabe.com (select Community tab) >> SINK OR SWIM PARENTING — Natalie's book, packed with real stories and research-backed strategies for parents of toddlers to teens: nataliemccabe.com --- DID THIS EPISODE HELP YOU? Share it with a mom who needs it today. And if you're loving the podcast, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts means the world — it helps other overwhelmed moms find us. Tag Natalie on Instagram: @natalie_mccabe_official
adbl_web_anon_alc_button_suppression_c
まだレビューはありません