Motherhood has a way of bringing anxiety, overwhelm, and unresolved trauma to the surface. In this episode, EMDR therapist Abbie Ames joins Emily to explore how motherhood can trigger old wounds, why so many moms feel overstimulated and emotionally exhausted, and how healing is possible through approaches that go beyond traditional talk therapy.

Abbie shares her own journey through pregnancy loss, fertility struggles, postpartum anxiety, and becoming a mom during COVID, along with the insights that led her to specialize in EMDR therapy for women and mothers. Together, they unpack the nervous system’s role in trauma, the pressure modern moms carry, and why so many women feel like they’re failing when they’re actually overwhelmed and unsupported.

This episode covers:

• Why motherhood can feel so triggering
• How trauma lives in the body
• Birth trauma, fertility struggles, and postpartum anxiety
• Why moms can’t always “think” their way out of overwhelm
• How EMDR therapy helps heal trauma beyond traditional talk therapy
• Breaking generational cycles and finding more peace in motherhood

This episode is an honest, compassionate conversation about healing trauma in motherhood, breaking generational cycles, and learning how to care for yourself without shame.

🔗 Connect with Abbie:

Instagram: @emdr.mom.therapist
Website: www.abbieamescounseling.com

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May is Maternal Mental Health Awareness Month, and to kick it off, Emily is sharing what she's learned from her personal experience navigating mental health in motherhood and what every mom needs to know for their own wellbeing.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why mental health struggles don’t always look the way we expect
• The difference between coping and actually healing
• Why “white knuckling” through motherhood isn’t the answer
• The impact of societal pressure on maternal mental health

If you've ever felt like you're just getting by, questioning yourself, or silently struggling, this episode will meet you right where you are.

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Motherhood doesn’t happen in a vacuum, and for many moms, that means navigating broken systems while also managing your own internal battles. In this episode, Emily sits down with Ciara Lyons, a nurse, mom, and founder of Her Black Wellness, to talk about the realities of maternal health, identity, and what it actually takes to keep showing up as a mother in today's world.

The episode dives into:

• The maternal health crisis in the United States, and how Black mothers are the most impacted
• How systemic issues impact all mothers
• Why “doing your best” might look different every single day
• What it looks like to advocate for yourself inside the healthcare system
• The role of community, boundaries, and capacity in modern motherhood

This conversation will validate your experiences navigating the challenges of modern motherhood, while also equipping you to fight for a better future.

🔗 Connect with Ciara:

Instagram: @herblackwellness
Links: https://linktr.ee/herblackwellness

✨ Let’s keep the convo going:

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Follow the podcast on TikTok → @thesparkleprojectpod

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