Two white dudes talking about what it's like to be a women in the church and in today's society. They know. Stephen and Jeff about to step into it, and with the best of intentions — covering the role and dignity of women in the church and in society, where the Bible actually lands on it, and where the church has done real damage by getting it wrong.

They get into the MacArthur/Beth Moore moment, what 1 Timothy 3 actually says about female deacons (it may not be what you think), the egalitarian arguments worth a serious hearing, and what Augustine said about women and sexual violence in 410 AD that was genuinely revolutionary. Also: the end of Judges, which is a lot.

The conversation gets personal too. Stephen has four daughters. Jeff has three sons. This topic affects them both in completely different ways.

Resources & Links

• John MacArthur – "Beth Moore, Go Home"
• Beth Moore — Living Proof Ministries
• John Piper — Desiring God
• N.T. Wright

A beloved actor takes his own life after decades of battling bipolar disorder — and it raises a question the church has fumbled for too long: how should Christians think about mental health, medication, and the limits of "just pray more"?

Jeff and Stephen get honest about depression, the stigma around meds, why refusing help can actually be sinful pride, and what William Cooper's taxi ride to London Bridge teaches us about common grace.

If you're struggling, you're not alone — and God isn't mad at you for needing help.

Resources & Links

📖 Spiritual Depression: Its Causes and Cure – Martyn Lloyd-Jones

📖 How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use – Randy J. Paterson

⛪ The Harbor Counseling Ministry – GraceLife Beachside Church

Join Pastors Jeff and Stephen in episode 1 of the Truth in the Trenches Podcast as they unpack how Christians can approach video games and leisure without guilt. Are games a waste or a gift? Can play be holy?

With humor and depth, they discuss joy, rest, addiction, and finding a balanced Christian life—whether you’re chilling with Castlevania and Shredder's Revenge or taking a break from the grind. Hit play for thoughtful, down-to-earth faith talk.