Most people drift through dating and hope it works out. We didn't. There's no magic forumla to make your dating relationship awesome, but there are some mindsets that will help you along the road. In this episode, we share 15 things we got right while dating, practices, boundaries, and decisions that built something lasting.

Join Tim and Bella as they revisit a pivotal conversation from their dating relationship: men and women's roles in the church and family. It was a tumultuous season in their dating relationship when they realized they were not on the same page on this important issue, and both reevaluated their marriage compatibility. Listen for the full story!

Tim and Bella close up their mini series, Opening Pandora's Box: Porn, Pornea, and Purity, with a frank conversation around breaking up with lustful habits. We like to think of sexual addictions as habits, its sounds nicer, and means we have control over the situation, but the reality is, many people live with addictions that they can't break.

Join Tim and Bella as they talk about the nuts and bolts of how to break sexual addictions and who to bring with you on this journey.

Join Tim and Bella in Part II of their Mini Series on prioritizing purity in dating relationships.

Before anyone crosses a line physically, there are usually a hundred smaller decisions, assumptions, and habits shaping your path. If you've ever wrestled with where to draw the line, how to date with integrity, or why good intentions alone are not enough, this conversation is for you.

Dive right in as Tim and Bella discuss the winding road of purity. Learn about sex, addiction, holiness, and wholesomeness. Wherever you find yourself on the journey, and whatever backage you bring with you, you are not alone.

Join us as we bring to light a topic that prefers to stay in the shadows.

This is Part 1 of our mini series on Porn, Pornea, and Purity. Stay tuned for next week's episode where we tackle relationship boundaries and where to set them...

"We need to talk."

Ever heard those fateful words and knew with dread the end of a relationship was looming? Breakups are sticky, challenging times, both for the breaker-upper and the broken-up-with.

Maybe you're tempted to overprocess the end of your relationship? Or complain and "vent" about your ex-partner? Or put yourself through anguish by holding onto the question, "what if"? Or maybe you excelled at breakups! But...probably not. They suck.

Join Tim and Bella as they chat about how to break up well (including very useful tips for how to cope with life when all you want to do is cry).

In this episode, Tim and Bella look at their own relationship as a case study, asking the question, "What's been working?" Together, they unpack the steps they've taken that have contributed to flourishing in thier relationship. Steps that, if followed, do not promise success, but certainly give you a nudge along the way!

If you've ever wanted clarity without pretending life is simple, press play.