We grow up believing connection should just… happen.

That if you love someone enoughIf the relationship is right enoughIf you’re close enough…

That spark should stay the same forever.

But then real life kicks in.

Stress.

Routine.

Pressure.

Emotional distance.

And slowly, the connection that once felt effortless starts to feel harder to hold onto.In this episode of Why Do I, I’m joined by Henika Patel, founder of the School of Sensual Arts.

Henika helps us understand why closeness can shift in long-term relationships and why so many couples struggle to talk about it honestly.

We unpack the difference between chasing intensity and building real connection…

Why the early “fireworks” phase naturally changes over time… and how relationships can become stronger when we stop expecting love to always look the way it did at the start.

If you’ve ever wondered why attraction changes over time…

If you’ve ever felt confused by distance in a relationship…

If you’ve ever loved someone deeply but struggled to feel close…

This episode is for you.

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