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Your Relationship Is Your Child's First Love Story - How Your Relationship Affects Your Children

Your Relationship Is Your Child's First Love Story - How Your Relationship Affects Your Children

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Want to turn moments of conflict into opportunities for intimacy? 👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredweYour children are not just watching you. They are becoming you.This is not a conversation about perfect parenting. It's a conversation about the invisible field that lives between you and your partner -- and how that field is shaping your children's nervous systems, their sense of safety, their capacity for love, and the relationships they will one day choose.If you are a parent -- or want to be one -- this episode will change how you see your relationship forever.3 Key Points Covered:Your relationship becomes your child's nervous system -- The coherence (or incoherence) between you and your partner becomes the nest within which your child develops. Their sense of safety, their regulation, their capacity to stay connected through difficulty -- all of it is shaped by the relational field you hold together.Your wounds become their blueprint -- Mike shares his own story of being adopted twice in the first 14 months of his life and the abandonment wounding that followed him -- and how, without awareness, that blueprint was handed directly to Cedar. The patterns we haven't healed become the patterns our children inherit.How you treat your partner is how your child will treat themselves and their future partners -- From Cedar saying "I'm so stupid" after hearing it used around him, to mirroring a parent's shutdown behaviour during conflict, our children are always watching. What we model becomes their normal.You'll Also Hear:The story of Cedar's injuries -- including the ambulance call -- and what Mike and Courtney realized about the direct link to their disconnectionMike's personal history with adoption, abandonment wounding, and how he unknowingly handed his blueprint to his sonWhat toxic fighting wires children to believe about love and connection -- and why they may grow up feeling that intimacy is dangerousHow to navigate co-parenting with honor and respect even when things aren't amicable -- and why talking badly about your partner in front of your child fragments them internallyThe constellation practice of gratitude that Courtney has been bringing to their relationship: "Thank you for making me a mama"The most powerful closing line of the episode: "How you tend the shared nervous system of your family is the love story your children will live"Go Deeper With Mike & Courtney:The Initiated Man -- Mike's online men's community for men who are ready to break the patterns they've inherited and become the embodied, connected fathers and partners they know they can be.🏹Join the Initiated Man →https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIMCouples Work with Mike & Courtney -- Private 2:2 intensive containers for couples who are ready to rewrite the blueprint -- for themselves, and for the next generation.💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 →https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-detailsWork with Mike → ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching⁠Work with Courtney → ⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth⁠If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call →Tune-in Call with Courtney📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast⁠💎 Join the Waitlist for The Holy Mama Membership →⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/holymamawaitlist⁠Email:⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe⁠www.courtneywren.com⁠Instagram:@MikeElliott.Relating@courtneywren.relating
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