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we are NOT the SAME

we are NOT the SAME

著者: Heather Gardner and Lacey Joseph
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We Are Not the Same: Join our comedic journey as Bodybuilder Barbie flexes her muscles against Daria’s dry wit! Dive into the hilarity of life’s twists and turns through the eyes of two contrasting besties who prove that different perspectives lead to the best stories. Tune in for laughs, randomness, and a sprinkle of chaos!





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  • Season Four Chaos And Catch-Up
    2026/05/18

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    A guy makes an AI “couple photo” after one date, and suddenly we’re asking the only question that matters: is that cute, or is that a horror movie trailer? Season four starts exactly how we live, loud, chaotic, and accidentally honest. We catch up on fitness prep and routines, why this cut feels more balanced, and how tiny habits like walking the dog or getting outside can shift your whole mood when you’re busy, stressed, and trying to stay consistent.

    From there we spiral into dating boundaries and the “prospect” phase, including the 90-day rule, what we learn after getting burned by love bombing, and why phone calls can feel like an energy vampire when you already have a full life. We even pull up ChatGPT mid-recording to unpack why ending a call can be weirdly hard, and the conversation turns into real talk about people-pleasing, social anxiety, ADHD, and autistic communication patterns like struggling with transitions.

    We also go deeper on sobriety, grief, and friendship growth, how we used to be “too supportive of the spiral,” and what changed when healing became the priority. Add Florida travel, parenting and cheer Worlds, plus our absolutely unhinged hatred of certain cars, and you’ve got a messy, relatable reset for anyone rebuilding routines, relationships, and mental health. If you laughed, cringed, or felt seen, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the show.

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  • The Morning After Social Anxiety
    2026/04/21

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    Your brain ever wake up and decide you’re the villain of yesterday’s perfectly normal conversation? We go straight into that morning shame spiral where you replay every word, assume everyone secretly hates you, and somehow turn a good interaction into a cringe highlight reel. We talk about how common it is, why it hits hard in the morning, and what it looks like when you’re used to masking and delaying emotions until you finally sit still.

    Then we pivot from life chaos to relationship patterns. Between cancer treatment stress, nonstop schedules, and the weird way some of us feel calmer when everything is on fire, we start asking the bigger question: what does “emotionally stable” even mean? From there, we dig into attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant), how “vibes” can be your nervous system scanning for danger, and why past emotional abuse, love bombing, and childhood unpredictability can wire you for the push-pull.

    We take an attachment style quiz on mic and both land on fearful avoidant (disorganized). That opens up the real frustration: we’re painfully self-aware, so why does change still feel so hard? We close with a candid talk about trauma and memory, why your brain might not “press record” during survival mode, and how healing can be less about knowing the label and more about practicing safer patterns over time.

    If any of this hit a nerve, listen now, share it with a friend who overthinks everything, and leave a review with your attachment style and what helps you feel secure.

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  • Hot People Problems And A Side Of Chaos
    2026/04/13

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    Pretty privilege sounds like a throwaway internet debate until you’re the one sitting at your desk wondering if you earned a promotion or if people only see your face.

    We start with a real catch-up, from turning 40 and stepping into a new era, to cheer worlds travel, bodybuilding prep, and the heavy day-by-day reality of a mom going through chemo. Life is layered right now, and we don’t only talk about it we actually live it.

    Then we pivot into a listener mailbag on pretty privilege and attraction, because the stories hit hard. One message comes from a woman getting side-eyed at work after a promotion, and we break down jealousy, projection, and what “earned” really means in corporate culture. Another comes from someone dating the hottest man alive who also happens to be flaky, inconsistent, and proudly unserious, and we say the part out loud about situationships, self worth, and why “If he wanted to, he would” keeps being true.

    We also read a rare male submission that asks whether staying vague is just modern dating or quietly taking advantage, and we get specific about boundaries, expectations, and honest communication from the very beginning. If you’re navigating dating in 2026, rebuilding after a long relationship, or trying to keep your standards intact in a low-effort world, this one will feel uncomfortably familiar.

    Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a reality check, leave a review, and send us your stories and questions for the next mailbag.

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