In this episode, I break down something that’s been quietly controlling my results with women: my belief system.

For years, I believed I could improve in every area of life—fitness, career, coaching—but when it came to women, I had the opposite mindset. I thought I wasn’t good enough, that women were the prize, and that I had to earn their attention.

That belief shaped everything.

I talk through how those thoughts created a cycle of hesitation, overthinking, and lack of confidence—and how I’m starting to shift into a new mindset: seeing myself as the prize.

This isn’t theory—this is me realizing, in real time, how much my mindset has been affecting my outcomes.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still struggling with women, this might be the missing piece.

After pushing myself to approach 20 women in one day, I set a new goal: 10 approaches spread out over a week to make it feel more natural.

In this episode, I break down what actually happened—where I succeeded, where I hesitated, and what I’m starting to learn about confidence, environment, and mindset. From yoga class to the gym to the dog park, I’m testing what it looks like to build real social momentum instead of forcing it all in one day.

This is what real progress looks like—imperfect, uncomfortable, but moving forward.

I set a goal to approach 20 women in one day—and actually followed through.

In this episode, I break down what happened from start to finish: the easy wins at the dog park, the awkward moments at the mall, and why the bookstore ended up being the best place to meet people. I talk about what worked, what didn’t, and the biggest mistake I made—cutting off a great interaction too early.

This wasn’t about getting numbers or being smooth. It was about getting reps, building comfort, and proving to myself that I can take action instead of overthinking.

If you’re trying to get better with women, this is what it actually looks like in real time—wins, losses, and everything in between.