How detailed do you get in your dating app profile?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley kick things off with a look at r/AskWomenNoCensor, where a man asks women what they want. To no one's surprise, men were quick to jump in with their opinions. Harris and Dr. Liz discuss the merits of listening to the people you want to date (because, surprise, surprise, there is no female hivemind), personalizing your dating profile, and showing a genuine interest in people.

Highlights of the episode:

• An impromptu cooking lesson (inspired by a chicken breast & Crystal Light smoothie 🤢)

• A rant about AI dating profiles

• A loving reminder to be quirky, weird, and interesting

Get out a pen and paper and get ready to take notes. Dr. Liz and Harris are going to help you make sure your dating profile is ready to reel in people who are truly interested in you.

Time Stamps

00:00 - Introductions

00:50 - Ep 3 updates

06:30 - r/AskWomenNoCensor

09:00 - Read my profile, first!

15:00 - Communication styles

20:00 - You don't have to force a fit

23:00 - Are you actually interested in other people?

28:00 - Be truthful on your profile

35:00 - Let's talk about this AI-bio

40:00 - Tell us who you are!

56:00 - Don't date people you're ashamed to be seen with

01:06:00 - Your preferences might just be social conditioning

01:28:00 - The chicken smoothie

01:30:00 - Red flag, green flag

01:38:00 - Final thoughts

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Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell talk about the men who really, really care about shooting ropes like Spider-Man. That's right. They're talking about nutmaxxers. Fueled by the fantasies of porn and a desire for self-optimization, these men might say their "enhanced performance" is for their partners, but Dr. Liz and Harris have their doubts.

Highlights of the episode:

• Porn "money shots" aren't what you think

• Fast and Furious movies are a little like porn

• Having sex…with your balls?! 👀

If you're interested in staying blissfully unaware about the secret lives of nutmaxxers, turn away now, because things are about to get a little sticky.

Time Stamps

0:00 – Intro bloopers & ADHD brains unite

2:00 – Why this podcast is pre-recorded

5:00 – Meet the Nutmaxxers: semen obsession & supplement culture

10:00 – Cum fetish vs. the unbearable cringe of this article

14:00 – Porn isn't real

20:00 – Male insecurity

26:00 – Fantasy vs. reality

34:00 – "I don't want a gallon on my face"

38:00 – Micropenises, oral skills, and redefining good sex

45:00 – Bad partners, poor communication, and load shame

52:00 – Actually useful advice

58:00 – Why men need to listen (and not just to each other)

1:06:00 – What's really sexy

1:12:00 – Final thoughts: Be a person, not a cum performance robot

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Where do you draw the line between calling out cheaters and a surveillance state?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell dive deep (deep 😉) into the surveillance nightmare that is Cheater Buster's facial recognition software. While their hearts go out to folks who've been cheated on, they also can't overlook how this technology will 100% be used by stalkers and abusers.

They chat about public call-out culture and the complete lack of privacy we've all come to expect, how technology is somehow made with negative ethical considerations, and the fact that men are often the ones at the scene of the crime.

Highlights of the episode:

• FetLife privacy scandals

• Debating the ethics of "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook groups

• Remembering a time when life wasn't the constant content grind

Before you race to see if your partner is secretly still on Tinder, listen to this. You might just find that trusting someone (or breaking up with them) is better than turning to spyware tech.

Time Stamps

00:00 - Welcome back!

02:00 - Cheater Buster, Tinder, and facial recognition

05:00 - FetLife privacy scandal

10:00 - Meta smart glasses and surveillance tech

16:00 - Why Cheater Buster is actually stalkerware

21:00 - Trust in relationships

24:00 - You can't prove a negative

31:00 - The death of privacy and content-ifying people's worst moments

36:00 - Weaponizing apps

43:00 - Dating entitlement

49:00 - Healing trust issues

54:00 - Dr. Liz and Harris get recognized

60:00 - Final thoughts

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