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  • Re-Release! Episode 29: Boundaries
    2026/04/10

    An old listener favorite! Episode 29: Boundaries. Back when the hosts were still green but eager.

    Feeling suffocated? Intruded upon? You may be having your boundaries violated. In this episode, Joseph and Paula talk about boundaries - what they are, the reason they are needed, and how to set them.

    If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠.

    Paula’s Blog is often updated with information from the show. You can find it at ⁠PaulaHellerGarland.BlogSpot.com⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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  • Mental Health Moment - Defining Procrastination
    2026/04/02

    Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

    In this episode, we are discussing - Defining Procrastination!

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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    3 分
  • Ep 149: Addiction, Part 5
    2026/03/26

    Loving Without Enabling: Supporting Someone Through Addiction

    In this episode of their series on addiction, Joseph and Paula focus on enabling—one of the most misunderstood and emotionally complex dynamics surrounding substance use. Because addiction remains highly stigmatized, this conversation is rooted in providing clarity, compassion, and accurate information rather than blame.

    The hosts explore the structural necessity for addiction to be enabled and examine how enabling addiction stabilizes the addiction just enough to prevent change.

    Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And don’t forget that Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Resources used in the development of this episode:

    • Addicted.org - Supporting vs. Enabling: How to Help Someone with Addiction Effectively

    • Sequoia Behavioral Health - Codependency vs. Enabling

    • WebMD - Are you enabling a loved one’s addiction?

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    32 分
  • Mental Health Moment - Professional Networking
    2026/03/19

    Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

    In this episode, we are discussing - Professional Networking!

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.


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  • Episode 147: Addiction, Part 3
    2026/03/12

    Addiction is often misunderstood, surrounded by stigma, and deeply complex. In this episode, Joseph and Paula are reflecting on their professional and personal experiences to shed light on the realities of addiction—what it is, what it isn’t, and how we can better support those affected by it.

    Join us as we discuss:

    • The facts about addiction and why it is not just about willpower

    • The common misconceptions about addiction

    • The impact addiction has on the individual and their loved ones

    • Effective treatment approaches

    • Some of the pathways to recovery

    • How to offer support without enabling

    Whether you or someone you love has been affected by addiction, or you simply want to understand it better, this episode is for you. Tune in for an open and compassionate conversation that challenges myths and encourages healing.

    Listen now, and don’t forget to subscribe and share—this is a conversation that could change lives!

    Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Sources used in the development of this episode include:

    The Top 10 Things You Need to Know About Addiction - Self Recovery

    Substance Use Statistics Sources

    NIH: Global Burden of Drug use disorder

    SAMHSA’s Statistics about Addiction in the USA

    The Economist World Report 2024

    World Health Organization Reports Over 3 million annual deaths related to addiction

    Worldwide Treatment versus Need for Treatment

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    31 分
  • Mental Health Moment - Digital Detox
    2026/03/05

    Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

    In this episode, we are discussing - Digital Detox!

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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    4 分
  • Episode 146: Addiction, Part 2
    2026/02/26

    Their series on addiction continues with this episode where the hosts explore whether the idea of an “addictive personality” is real and what actually drives addiction. Joseph and Paula review global and U.S. addiction statistics:

    • ​Tens of millions worldwide have drug use disorders.
    • ​Hundreds of millions have alcohol use disorders.
    • ​Combined, hundreds of millions globally meet criteria for substance use disorders, contributing to over 3 million deaths annually.
    • ​In the U.S., about 1 in 6 people aged 12+ meet criteria for substance use disorder each year.


    Despite the scale of the problem, treatment access is extremely limited:

    The key takeaway: most people who don’t receive treatment are not refusing help—they are scared, overwhelmed, unsupported, or stuck in survival mode. Addiction is complex, human, and deeply tied to both emotional pain and systemic barriers, not a flawed personality.

    Listen now, and don’t forget to subscribe and share—this is a conversation that could change lives!

    Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Sources used in the development of this episode include:

    The Top 10 Things You Need to Know About Addiction - Self Recovery

    Substance Use Statistics Sources

    NIH: Global Burden of Drug use disorder

    SAMHSA’s Statistics about Addiction in the USA

    The Economist World Report 2024

    World Health Organization Reports Over 3 million annual deaths related to addiction

    Worldwide Treatment versus Need for Treatment
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    26 分
  • Mental Health Moment - Mindfulness
    2026/02/19

    Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

    In this episode, we are discussing - how mindfulness can support our mental health.

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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    3 分