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  • What is Mirror Anxiety and Do You Have It?

    What is Mirror Anxiety and Do You Have It?
    2026/05/06
    #210 - What is Mirror Anxiety and Do You Have It? With Dr. Natalya Borakowski At some point, it happens. You catch your reflection and think… wait, when did that change? You see yourself in a mirror, a photo, or on Zoom… and something looks painfully off. That subtle disconnect has a name and it’s more than skin deep. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Natalya Borakowski, a naturopathic physician specializing in women’s health, hormones, and cosmetic dermatology. We’re unpacking the science and psychology behind midlife changes from perimenopause and menopause. And doing a deep dive into “mirror anxiety.” We talk about why your brain holds onto a younger version of your face, how stress, sleep, and nutrition directly impact your skin seemingly overnight, and why so many of us feel the urge to fix it fast. This is a grounded, honest conversation about aging, beauty, and how to support your body instead of fighting it. If you’ve been noticing changes in your skin, energy, or reflection and wondering what’s actually going on, this episode connects the dots. You’ll learn: What causes “mirror anxiety” in your 40s and beyond • How perimenopause and menopause affect your skin and aging • The connection between stress, sleep, and visible aging • Why protein, nutrition, and daily habits matter more than products • How to approach aesthetic treatments from a place of clarity, not panic • Simple ways to support healthy aging and feel like yourself again This is not about giving up aesthetics or pretending you don’t care. It’s about making decisions from a place of calm clarity. If you’ve been feeling that subtle shift, this conversation is a much-needed breath of fresh air. If this episode made you pause for a second… that’s the point. Share it with a friend who’s been quietly wondering if it’s just her. It’s not. And if you’re not already, make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss what’s coming next. We go deep into the things that matter to you. Not more wellness noise but actionable steps that genuinely change your life. If you don’t yet have the Morning Mindset Journal, that’s a great place to keep reflections like this. It’s free and linked in the show notes.❤️ midlife health, perimenopause, hormone balance, aging gracefully, skin health, functional medicine, women’s health, stress and aging, cortisol, collagen, skincare routine, mirror anxiety, anti aging, holistic health, beauty and wellness 🔗 Resources & Links: The Morning Mindset Journal https://lisasmithwellness.com/the-morning-mindset-journal ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Natalya: Website: www.unveilyou.life IG: https://www.instagram.com/unveilyou.life/ Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement, or lifestyle program. The Pretty Well Podcast is for private non-commercial use and our guests do not necessarily reflect any agency, organization, or company that they work for. In addition, opinions of interview guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Lisa Smith and/or The Pretty Well Podcast. This content is not guaranteed to be correct, complete, or up to date.
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    57 分
  • The #1 Symptom of Hidden Toxin Overload

    The #1 Symptom of Hidden Toxin Overload
    2026/04/29
    #209 - The #1 Symptom of Hidden Toxin Overload At a certain point, it’s not one thing. It’s the accumulation. And most of it isn’t obvious in the moment. It’s what builds quietly over time. Because it’s one thing to understand toxic load. It’s another to see how it actually plays out inside the body day to day. In Part 2, I sit back down with Dr. Joe Nieusma, toxicologist with nearly four decades of experience, and we go deeper into what’s actually happening inside the body when inflammation, exposure, and intervention start to overlap. And this is where the nuance matters. Inflammation isn’t just something to suppress. It’s how your body heals. But when it runs unchecked, or when the body doesn’t have what it needs to regulate it, that’s when things start to spiral. We talk about the fine line between helpful inflammation and when it tips into something far more damaging, and why trying to shut it down completely can actually work against you. There’s also a moment in this conversation that really sticks. The idea that your body is constantly redistributing and compensating under stress, and that what shows up on a lab or in a moment doesn’t always tell the full story. Which explains a lot more than you’d think. We also get into something that doesn’t get talked about enough. How people end up on multiple medications that start to interact, stack, and create entirely new problems. Not because anyone is doing anything wrong, but because nothing in the body happens in isolation. And once you see that, it becomes a very different conversation. We also go into real-world examples, from low-level chemical exposure that shows up years later, to how everyday foods and environmental inputs can quietly drive inflammation in ways most people never connect. And one of the biggest takeaways from this entire conversation: your body is always trying to move toward balance. The question is whether we’re supporting that or unknowingly working against it. 00:00 Why this needed a Part 2 and where we’re going deeper. 02:00 The truth about inflammation and why suppressing it isn’t always the answer. 05:00 What happens in the body during stress and why lab values don’t tell the full story. 10:00 Low-level exposure over time and how it quietly impacts long-term health. 18:30 Polypharmacy and how medications can start creating new problems. 26:00 The toxic cocktail effect and why symptoms often stack instead of resolve. 28:30 Finding root cause and why removing the trigger can change everything. If something in this episode clicked, take a few minutes and write this down: Where might my body be dealing with more than I’ve been aware of? Nothing you need to do yet. Just something to start paying attention to. If you don’t yet have the Morning Mindset Journal, that’s a great place to keep reflections like this. It’s free and linked in the show notes.❤️ If this episode shifted how you’re thinking about your health, send it to someone who’s been trying everything and still not getting answers. And if you’re not already following the show, make sure you hit follow. Part 2 is where this conversation starts to turn into something you can actually apply. If something clicked for you, I’d love to hear that too. Leave a review or share it and tag me so I can see what landed. 🔗 Resources & Links (As An Amazon Associate I Earn A Small Commission From Qualifying Purchases At No Extra Cost To You): The Morning Mindset Journal https://lisasmithwellness.com/the-morning-mindset-journal ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any ...
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    33 分
  • The Hidden Trigger of Fatigue and Inflammation

    The Hidden Trigger of Fatigue and Inflammation
    2026/04/22
    #208 - The Hidden Trigger of Fatigue and Inflammation -How everyday toxins, cumulative exposure, and inflammation impact energy, brain fog, and long-term health Most people aren’t under-supported. They’re overexposed. Think toxins. And no amount of adding more to your routine fixes that. We’ve been trained to look for what’s missing… another supplement, a better protocol, something we haven’t tried yet. Meanwhile, your body is busy dealing with what’s already coming in… all day, every day. Air. Water. Food. Medications. Products. Individually, they don’t seem like much. Together, they’re more than we think. And at a certain point, your body stops keeping up quietly. It starts showing you. Fatigue that doesn’t fully resolve. Brain fog you can’t think your way out of. Symptoms that improve some… but never quite go away. This conversation goes there. In Part 1 of this series, I sit down with Dr. Joe Nieusma, a toxicologist with nearly four decades of experience studying how chemicals, drugs, and environmental exposures actually impact the human body. And what he shares reframes a lot. From why “safe levels” don’t reflect real life… to how constant, low-level exposure actually works in the body… to the idea that your system is managing a cumulative load, not isolated inputs. There’s also a moment where he breaks something down so simply it sticks. Your body has a finite capacity to deal with what’s coming in, and most people are unknowingly exceeding it. Once you hear that, a lot of things start to make more sense. We also get into a two-part approach to actually supporting the body: how to help it clear what shouldn’t be there, and how to calm the inflammation that keeps people stuck. It’s simple. But it changes how you think about everything from energy to immunity to how we age. Timestamps 00:00 Why this conversation had to be a series 04:30 What toxic exposure actually means and why dose alone doesn’t tell the full story 10:15 The pharmaceutical model, polypharmacy, and why more medication isn’t always the answer 18:40 The “bucket” concept that explains inflammation, burnout, and chronic symptoms 28:30 A two-part strategy to help the body clear toxins and reduce inflammation If this episode shifted how you’re thinking about your health, send it to someone who’s been trying everything and still not getting answers. And if you’re not already following the show, make sure you hit follow. Part 2 goes deeper into what this actually looks like in practice… and how to start applying it. If something in this episode clicked, take a few minutes and write this down: Where might my body be taking in more than I’ve been aware of. Nothing you need to do, just something you want to start paying attention to. I'd love it if you'd leave a review or share it and tag me so I can see what matters most to you. If you don’t yet have the Morning Mindset Journal, that’s a great space to keep information like this. It’s free. Link is below. ❤️ 🔗 Resources & Links : The Morning Mindset Journal https://lisasmithwellness.com/the-morning-mindset-journal ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement, or lifestyle program. The Pretty Well Podcast is for private non-commercial use and our guests do not necessarily reflect any agency, organization, or company that they work for. In addition, opinions of interview guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Lisa Smith and/or The Pretty Well Podcast. This content is not guaranteed to be correct, complete, or up to date.
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    49 分
  • The Biology of Belief Part 3: Becoming Your Future Self (When Your Body Feels Safe to Move Forward)

    The Biology of Belief Part 3: Becoming Your Future Self (When Your Body Feels Safe to Move Forward)
    2026/04/15
    #207 - The Biology of Belief Part 3: Becoming Your Future Self (When Your Body Feels Safe to Move Forward) -Why change still feels like effort, how identity is shaped by safety, and the simple shift that helps your body finally move forward Ever notice how you can want something deeply… and still feel like you’re not fully stepping into it? Not because you don’t believe in it. Not because you’re not capable. But because something in you isn’t fully on board yet. In this final part of the Biology of Belief series, we’re closing the loop on something a lot of high-functioning, health-conscious people quietly feel but don’t always say out loud: “I’m doing everything right… so why does this still feel like effort?” This is where we move beyond habits, beyond mindset, and into something much more foundational. Your identity. Not who you think you are, but who your body believes you need to be to stay safe. What we get into in this episode: There’s a version of your life you’re working toward. Health, ease, energy, clarity, longevity. But your body has one job. Not to chase that vision. To ask one question: Is it safe to be that person? Your body doesn’t run on goals or logic. It runs on familiarity. And if the version of you that you’re working toward doesn’t feel familiar yet, your system will default to what it knows… even if what it knows feels like pressure, urgency, or constantly holding it all together. We talk about what that actually means in real life, how those patterns become your identity, and why change can feel harder than it “should” even when you’re doing everything right. In this episode, we cover: Why your body filters your future through the lens of safety, not desire The real definition of identity and how it shapes your health and behavior Why high-achieving, health-conscious people often feel like it’s all a grind How patterns like urgency and pressure become your baseline The role of fascia as stored memory and lived experience in the body What people call manifestation and what’s actually happening underneath it A simple 4 step process to help your body feel safe enough to change Timestamps: 00:00 The quiet frustration of doing everything right but still feeling effort 02:00 Why your body questions whether your future is sustainable 03:30 Safety and trust as the real gatekeepers of change 05:00 What beliefs actually are beneath the surface language 07:00 How identity is formed and why two people get different results 09:00 Fascia, stored stress, and how your body holds your past 12:00 What’s really happening when things finally start to “flow” 14:00 The 4 step process to shift your internal state and identity 18:30 A question that reveals where you’re still bracing The takeaway: You’re not trying to become someone else. You’re allowing your body to feel safe becoming who you already know you are. And until your system trusts that version of your life, it will keep pulling you back toward what feels familiar. Even if familiar feels like stress. The shift isn’t about doing more. It’s about creating enough safety that your body finally says, “Okay, we can go there.” If this episode made something click, pause for a second and stay with that. That’s not just insight. That’s your system starting to recognize something new. If you want a place to actually work through this, the Morning Mindset Journal is linked in the show notes. It’s free and a simple way to get your thoughts out of your head and start creating a different internal signal in just a few minutes a day. ❤️ Follow the show so you don’t miss what’s coming next, and if you haven’t yet, take a second to rate and review. It genuinely helps more people find these conversations. Keywords: nervous system safety, identity change, why change is hard, self trust, mind body connection, fascia and trauma, subconscious patterns, behavior change, stress physiology, functional medicine mindset 🔗 Resources & Links : The Morning Mindset Journal ❤️ http://lisasmithwellness.com/the-morning-mindset-journal 💥 Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or ...
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    22 分
  • The Biology of Belief Part 2: Why Your Body Won’t Let You Change (Even When You Know What to Do)

    The Biology of Belief Part 2: Why Your Body Won’t Let You Change (Even When You Know What to Do)
    2026/04/08
    The Biology of Belief Part 2: Why Your Body Won’t Let You Change (Even When You Know What to Do) Ever notice how your brain can be fully on board… and your body is like, “absolutely not”? Yeah. That’s where we’re going today. This episode starts with me sitting at my kitchen table, realizing I was basically inhaling my food like a Labrador… again. And what that moment uncovered had nothing to do with habits. You can understand something completely… and still watch yourself not do it. Not because you don’t care or lack discipline. But because something deeper hasn’t shifted yet. This is the part most people never get an explanation for. Why the habits don’t stick. Why the patterns keep repeating. In Part 2 of the Biology of Belief series, we’re going inside the mechanics of that gap. We talk about how your body has been programmed to respond. This isn't about learning more or trying harder. It’s about the patterns your system has rehearsed so many times that they’ve become automatic. In this episode, we cover: • Why knowing what to do doesn’t mean your body is available to do it • How self-talk becomes either makes or breaks your habits, goals, and dreams • Why emotions program your nervous system • Why affirmations don’t work unless they're connected to feeling • How repeated thoughts shape stress, inflammation, and behavior • The connection between subconscious patterns and daily habits • A simple way to start shifting patterns without forcing change Timestamps: 00:00 When your brain agrees but your body doesn’t follow 02:15 Why this isn’t about habits or discipline 03:15 How the limbic system overrides logic 05:00 Why your body can feel unsafe even when life looks stable 07:40 The bigger question behind thoughts and biology 10:00 How your internal dialogue becomes instruction 13:10 Why repetition alone doesn’t rewire your system 15:00 The missing link behind habits that don’t stick The takeaway: You’re not stuck because you don’t know enough. You’re stuck because your system is still running a pattern that feels safer than change. And until that pattern shifts, your body will keep choosing what’s familiar… even if it’s frustrating. If this episode made you see yourself a little more clearly, that’s real progress starting to take root. If you want a place to begin shifting those patterns, the Morning Mindset Journal is linked in the show notes. It gives you a simple way to start changing the signal consistently. ❤️ Follow the show so you don’t miss Part 3, where we bring this together and talk about what it actually looks like to become your next level self. 🔗 Resources & Links: The Morning Mindset Journal (it's free!) http://lisasmithwellness.com/the-morning-mindset-journal ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement, or lifestyle program. The Pretty Well Podcast is for private non-commercial use and our guests do not necessarily reflect any agency, organization, or company that they work for. In addition, opinions of interview guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Lisa Smith and/or The Pretty Well Podcast. This content is not guaranteed to be correct, complete, or up to date.
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    27 分
  • The Biology of Belief Part 1: Why Your Body Doesn’t Feel Safe

    The Biology of Belief Part 1: Why Your Body Doesn’t Feel Safe
    2026/04/01
    #205: The Biology of Belief Part 1: Why Your Body Doesn’t Feel Safe -Your Body Is Listening to Something You’re Not Aware Of Ever have that feeling where nothing is technically wrong… but your body is bracing? You’re doing the things. Eating well. Taking care of yourself. Staying on top of it. And yet there’s this low-level tension running in the background like your system never fully powers down. This is where we start. Because what if that feeling isn’t random… and it’s not something you need to fix? Let me say something that might rattle the wellness algorithm a little: What if it’s actually your body doing exactly what it was designed to do? In this first episode of the Biology of Belief series, we’re zooming out and looking at the foundation most people never think about. The signal your body is constantly reading. The one that determines whether you heal, regulate, and expand… or whether you stay guarded, braced, and in protection mode. And here’s the part that changes everything once you see it: Your body isn’t responding to what you know. It’s responding to what it detects. What we get into in this episode: There’s a moment in this episode that starts with something simple. Standing in the kitchen, holding a cup of tea, realizing your body is already ten steps ahead of your day. Nothing is wrong. But nothing feels settled either. That moment opens the door to a much bigger question. What is your body actually responding to? We talk about why symptoms aren’t random, why your body doesn’t operate on logic, and how your nervous system is constantly scanning for safety before your conscious mind even catches up. This is the foundation everything else builds on. In this episode, we cover: Why your body prioritizes safety over everything else The difference between what you know and what your body detects Why doing everything right doesn’t always lead to results How symptoms like fatigue, gut issues, and anxiety are protective signals The role of predictability in calming your nervous system How self-trust is built through small, consistent actions Why pace and pressure shape your physiology Timestamps: 00:00 That constant “on” feeling you can’t quite explain 02:00 The kitchen moment that sparked a different question 03:15 Why your body doesn’t care how much you know 05:00 Protection mode vs growth mode and what your symptoms are telling you 07:00 Why logic doesn’t change how your body responds 09:00 Predictability as a signal of safety 12:00 How urgency keeps your body in stress mode 15:00 Why consistency matters more than intensity The takeaway: Your body isn’t fragile. It’s adaptive, intelligent, and constantly working to protect you. And when it doesn’t feel safe, it will always choose protection over healing. Not because it’s broken. Because it’s doing its job. If this episode made something click, stay with that. That awareness is where this whole series begins. If you want a simple place to start applying this, the Morning Mindset Journal is linked in the show notes. It’s a quick, structured way to build consistency and start sending your body a different signal. Follow the show so you don’t miss Part 2, where we get into why knowing what to do still doesn’t translate into change. 🔗 Resources & Links (As An Amazon Associate I Earn A Small Commission From Qualifying Purchases At No Extra Cost To You): Free! The Morning Mindset Journal – A 5–10 minute daily structure to build predictability, coherence, and internal safety (free link in show notes). Where To Find Me Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePrettyWellPodcast Podcast: The Pretty Well Podcast (on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere you listen) Your body isn’t broken. It’s responding intelligently. When belief becomes biology, healing starts to make sense. Stay, Pretty Well. 💥 Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for...
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    33 分
  • High-Functioning. Healthy. Still Exhausted. Interview with Jared St. Clair from Vitality Radio

    High-Functioning. Healthy. Still Exhausted. Interview with Jared St. Clair from Vitality Radio
    2026/03/25
    #204 - High-Functioning. Healthy. Still Exhausted. Interview with Jared St. Clair from Vitality Radio Over time we’ve learned that having the health we want comes down to how much discipline we have: better habits, more consistency, tighter routines. But what if the real reason those approaches keep falling short has nothing to do with what you’re doing—and everything to do with your nervous system? In this delightfully real conversation with Jared St. Clair from Vitality Radio, we go there. Diving beneath the usual performance-driven wellness talk and into what actually moves the needle in your overall energy, wellness, and vitality. We talk about patterns that look “high-functioning” but actually aren’t; why so many people feel a general sense of blah no matter how hard they try; and how pushing harder backfires when your nervous system is already overloaded. This episode connects the dots between your biology, behavior, healing, and identity—with a lot of raw truths (and laughs) along the way. It’s a grounded conversation about feeling safe, seen, and resilient. If you’ve ever wondered why you know what to do but can’t seem to sustain it—or why rest feels wrong—you’ll love this episode. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why willpower breaks down under chronic stress What “nervous system capacity” actually means in real life How high achievers unknowingly train themselves into burnout The difference between discipline and nervous system safety Why rest can feel like a threat—and how to rebuild tolerance for it How to create change that actually sticks (without forcing it) Time Stamps 00:00 — Why discipline isn’t the problem we think it is 03:00 — Stress, adaptation, and the nervous system’s role in behavior 06:30 — High-functioning burnout: when things look fine but feel off 10:00 — Why pushing harder often makes symptoms worse 14:00 — Regulation vs. optimization: what actually creates resilience 18:00 — Relearning rest, recovery, and safety in the body 22:00 — Building capacity instead of chasing performance Why This Conversation Matters Most wellness advice assumes your body is neutral and ready to comply. But when your nervous system is tapping out, no amount of discipline will work. Healing doesn’t start with better habits—it starts with creating enough safety and space for change to happen. This episode is a breath of fresh air—especially if you’re tired of trying harder and getting nowhere. Where to Find Jared Website: https://vitalitynutrition.com/pages/about-us?srsltid=AfmBOoqNMcBTmQ--3AVS4U0R75f3nstRJrxseq2xka5ClgOEOPso8lnb Podcast: https://www.vitalityradio.com/listen/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaredsaint/ https://www.instagram.com/vitalityradio/ Where to Find Lisa Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast Website: https://lisasmithwellness.com Listen to The Pretty Well Podcast wherever you get your podcasts Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement, or lifestyle program. The Pretty Well Podcast is for private non-commercial use and our guests do not necessarily reflect any agency, organization, or company that they work for. In addition, opinions of interview guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Lisa Smith and/or The Pretty Well Podcast. This content is not guaranteed to be correct, complete, or up to date. ✨Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week.
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    51 分
  • Who Said You Had To Be Perfect To Be Well? With Dr. Kim Howes

    Who Said You Had To Be Perfect To Be Well? With Dr. Kim Howes
    2026/03/18
    #203 - Who Said You Had To Be Perfect To Be Well? With Dr. Kim Howes If you’ve ever thought, “I’m not feeling my best because I’m not doing all the things right,” this episode is going to hit. Because somewhere along the way, a lot of high-capacity people accepted the idea that wellness equals doing all the things - just right. Perfect routines. Perfect mindset. Perfect food. Perfect supplements. Perfect activity. Perfect body. And that? That’s exhausting. And... It's a lie. In this episode of Pretty Well, I sit down with Dr. Kim Howes to unpack the quiet pressure so many of us carry: the belief that feeling great requires us to be perfect. And we get very honest about how that belief is keeping you stuck in cycles of over-functioning, analysis paralysis, and never quite feeling like you’re “there.” This is not a fluffy “just love yourself more” conversation. It’s nuanced. Grounded. Practical. And if you’re someone who does all the right things but still feels like you’re failing at them? You’re going to feel very seen. In This Episode, We Cover: [02:10] The Real Roots of Perfectionism Dr. Howes breaks down how perfectionism isn’t about high standards — it’s often about protection. Protection from rejection. Criticism. Not feeling enough. You’ll start to recognize how this pattern may have quietly shaped your relationship with food, productivity, health, and even rest. [07:45] The Hidden Cost of “Doing Everything Right” We talk about the mental load of constantly trying to optimize yourself — and why it creates more nervous system activation than progress. If you’ve ever thought: “Why am I still tired?” “Why doesn’t this feel easier?” “Why do I feel behind even when I’m ahead?” This section will hit. [14:30] When Wellness Becomes Another Performance There’s a difference between supporting your health and performing your health. We unpack how wellness culture can subtly reinforce the idea that you are only as good as your discipline. And how that belief undermines self-trust over time. [21:55] Self-Compassion (Without the Eye Roll) Not the soft, vague version. The evidence-based, nervous-system-regulating, behavior-changing version. Dr. Howes explains why self-compassion actually increases accountability and follow-through — instead of making you complacent. This is the part most high achievers misunderstand. [29:40] How to Interrupt the “Never Enough” Loop We get practical here. What to say to yourself in real time. How to catch the inner critic before it runs the meeting. How to build standards without building shame. Small shifts. Big relief. Why This Episode Matters Because if you secretly believe: I should be further by now I shouldn’t struggle with this If I were stronger, I’d have figured it out …then perfectionism is likely running more of your life than you realize. And the irony? The more you chase perfect wellness, the further you drift from actually living the life you love. This conversation isn’t about lowering your standards. It’s about removing the internal pressure that’s keeping you tense, reactive, and quietly dissatisfied — even when you’re doing everything “right.” If this episode resonates, share it with someone else who holds themselves to impossible standards. And if you’re ready to stop performing wellness and actually feel amazing — this is where to start. 🔗 Resources & Links - Connect with Dr. Kim: Website: DrKimHowes.com Instagram & TikTok: @drkimberlyhowes 💥 Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! 🎙 Subscribe, Share & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights. Thanks for tuning in to Pretty Well! See you next week! Contact Lisa: Website: www.lisasmithwellness.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/prettywell_podcast/ Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine. The primary purpose of The Pretty Well Podcast being to educate. This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice nor to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. By listening to this content, you agree to consult your own physician or qualified health professional regarding specific health questions. Neither Lisa Smith, The Pretty Well Podcast, nor any guest takes responsibility for possible health consequences of any person or persons following the information in this educational content. All listeners of this content, especially those who are pregnant or taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement, or lifestyle program. ...
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