"It's not your fault."

Those four words, the first line of Tamu Thomas's book Women Who Work Too Much became the invitation for this month's touchstone. If the system was never built for us to thrive, if we've been running on empty because we were told that's what it means to be a worthy woman, then maybe the only way forward is to reframe.

In this episode of The Wild Woman with Sarah Diop, Sarah guides you through:

• The theme of reframing inspired by the Tamu Thomas conversation

• April 2026 astrology including Mars in Aries, Venus in Taurus, Taurus season, and Uranus entering Gemini

• April moon dates: Full Moon in Libra (April 1) and New Moon in Aries (April 17)

• A house blessing ritual using cinnamon and salt, a Gaelic blessing to invite prosperity, cleansing, and sacredness into your home

• A morning ritual for better sleep, waiting 60–90 minutes for coffee, morning sunlight, and cold shower to optimize your circadian rhythm

• A collective tarot & ancestor reading to carry with you through the month

If you're ready to reframe what success looks like, what rest means, and how you start your day, this episode is your April touchstone.

House Blessing Ritual: Cinnamon & Salt

Spring is a time of clearing out the old and inviting in the new. This simple ritual blesses your home with prosperity (cinnamon) and cleansing (salt).

What you'll need:

• A small bowl with a mixture of cinnamon and salt
• Your front door
• Optional: A quiet moment to set your intention

The Ritual:

• Stand at your front door, facing into your home.
• Take a small amount of the mixture in your left hand (the receiving hand).
• Bring your hand to your heart centre. Set your intention: I bless this home. May it be a place of peace, prosperity, and presence.
• Blow the mixture into your home.

Gaelic House Blessing
(Blow more mixture between each line)

"Bless this house and all that dwell within."
"Bless each door that opens wide to stranger or kin."
"May peace and joy be found under its roof."
"Bless each place of rest."
"Bless each window pane that lets the starlight in."
"May it be a safe haven from the storms of life."
"Bless this house with warmth and light."
"May love and kindness thrive within its walls."
"Bless this house and all that dwell within."

Resources & Links

Awaken Your Wild Woman Workbook

Women Who Work Too Much by Tamu Thomas

Tamu Thomas Interview (Episode 2)

The Wild Woman with Sarah Diop – Patreon

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Reclaiming Your Nervous System, Redefining Success & Breaking Free from Toxic Productivity

"It's not your fault."

That's the first line of the first chapter of Tamu Thomas's groundbreaking book, Women Who Work Too Much: Break Free from Toxic Productivity and Find Your Joy . And in this powerful conversation, Tamu invites us to exhale, soften, and finally ask ourselves: What if I'm not broken, what if the system is?

Tamu Thomas is a transformational somatic leadership coach, former social worker, and author whose work sits at the intersection of nervous system regulation, social justice, and women's liberation. Her message is both a balm and a wake-up call: our value is not in what we do, but in who we already are.

In this soul-stirring episode of The Wild Woman with Sarah Diop, Tamu and Sarah explore:

• Why women end up over-functioning just to survive and why it's not your fault
• The myth of "having it all" and the infrastructure that was never built to support it
• How the industrial revolution taught us to judge our humanity against the standard of machines
• Why women wax and wane like the moon and how our cycles impact our nervous systems, productivity, and sense of self
• The autonomic ladder: what it is, how it works, and how to befriend your nervous system
• The difference between toxic productivity and natural productivity
• Why "positive mindset" can become the nectar of capitalism—and how to tell the difference between genuine optimism and toxic positivity
• The liberating power of redefining success on your own terms
• A powerful story of a woman who chose a part-time bakery job over a six-figure business—and why that was the most empowered choice she could make

If you've ever found yourself googling productivity hacks when what you really need is rest… if you've ever dismissed your body's signals and pushed through anyway… if you've ever felt like you're running on empty but can't figure out how to stop, this episode is for you.

Key Themes We Explore

✨ It's Not Your Fault – The personal development industry often implies we're broken. Tamu flips the script: you're over-functioning because the system wasn't built for you to thrive.

✨ Waxing and Waning Like the Moon – Women's energy ebbs and flows with their cycles. We've been taught to judge ourselves by our ovulation-phase selves—and it's destroying us.

✨ The Autonomic Ladder – A simplified guide to your nervous system: ventral (connection + safety), sympathetic (motivation + ambition), dorsal (collapse + rest). We travel up and down this ladder all day—and that's normal.

✨ Toxic Productivity vs. Natural Productivity – Pushing through at all costs vs. flowing with your energy. One leads to burnout. The other leads to joy.

✨ Redefining Success – Success isn't one size fits all. For one woman, it was a six-figure business. For another, it was a part-time bakery job that let her pick up her kids from school. Both are valid. Both are powerful.

✨ The Nectar of Capitalism – Toxic positivity keeps us divided, distracted, and buying solutions to problems that require collective care.

Connect with Tamu Thomas

Website: www.livethreesixty.com

Instagram: @tamu.thomas

TikTok: @tamu_thomas

Book: Women Who Work Too Much – Available at Hay House and all major booksellers

WOMEN WHO WORK TOO MUCH

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• (00:00:00) - The Wild Woman
• (00:00:51) - In Women Who Work Too Much
• (00:04:47) - How to Stop Judging Yourself Based on Your Period
• (00:12:02) - In the Elevator With Women
• (00:14:12) - Toxic Positive Mindset
• (00:20:09) - How to Pick Up Women Who Work Too Much
• (00:20:25) - The Wild Woman: Spotlight Guests

Welcome to our first full episode of The Wild Woman with Sarah Diop. This monthly forecast is your invitation to sync your life with the seasons, the cosmos, and your own wild rhythm.

In this episode, Sarah Diop guides you through:

• The potent energy of the Year of the Fire Horse: a once-in-60-years invitation to run wild

• The astrology of March 2026, including a total lunar eclipse, Mercury retrograde, and the astrological new year

• March's new and full moon dates with a sacred Moon Water ritual for release and intention-setting

• A health tip inspired by Karma Brown's The 4% Fix: waking 5–15 minutes earlier to take the first slice of pie for yourself

• A collective tarot reading to carry with you through the month

If you've been feeling the pull to slow down, listen inward, and remember who you are beneath the noise—this episode is your touchstone.

• Awaken Your Wild Woman Workbook by Sarah Diop

• The 4% Fix by Karma Brown

• Burnout by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

• Blog Post: The Year of the Horse: Your Invitation to Run Wild

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• A clean glass jar or drinking glass

• Water

• Small piece of paper and pen

• Fireproof bowl for burning

• Access to moonlight (a windowsill works)

1. Write what you're ready to release: fears, patterns, anything exposed by recent revelations

2. Fill your jar with water, place on windowsill, and say:
   "I charge this water under the Worm Moon Eclipse. May it absorb the purifying light of this revelation."

3. Wrap your paper around the base of the glass; leave overnight

4. At sunrise, hold the glass and say:
   "I drink the light of the Worm Moon. May this water cleanse me from within."

• (00:00:00) - The Wild Woman
• (00:01:44) - The Year of the Fire Horse
• (00:04:56) - March 2019: The Healing and Awakening Energy
• (00:06:33) - March horoscope: What to Expect in March
• (00:07:06) - Full Moon in Virgo
• (00:08:12) - March 6th: When Venus Enters Aries
• (00:10:33) - March's Horoscope: What to Expect This Month
• (00:13:59) - Moon Water Ritual for Full and New Moon
• (00:17:25) - Taking a tiny bit of time for yourself each day
• (00:22:39) - March Tarot, Ancestors and Oracle Cards
• (00:28:01) - January Wild Women: A Celebration
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