What happens when alcohol slowly disconnects you from yourself… and from God?

In this heartfelt episode of The Zero Proof Life Podcast, Becca sits down with Carolyn Bennett — co-founder of The Zero Proof Life, certified This Naked Mind Coach, Ecotherapy Practitioner, and creator of the Sips of Serenity devotional — for a deeply honest conversation about faith, healing, identity, and what it means to truly “thaw out” emotionally after alcohol.

Carolyn shares her personal story of feeling spiritually disconnected during her drinking years, how fear and shame fueled her relationship with alcohol, and how reconnecting with God, nature, and her body became an essential part of her healing journey.

Together, they explore:

• How alcohol disconnects women spiritually, emotionally, and physically
• Why so many women feel “numbed out” or detached from themselves
• The concept of “thawing out” emotionally in alcohol-free living
• Learning to sit with discomfort instead of escaping it
• The connection between faith, nervous system healing, and recovery
• Nature, intuition, and hearing the “still small voice” again
• Shame, self-worth, and remembering that you are not broken
• Carolyn’s inspiration behind her devotional Sips of Serenity
• How science and scripture beautifully complement one another in healing
• Morning routines, gratitude, and simple practices that bring life back into living

This episode is especially meaningful for women who feel stuck between knowing alcohol no longer serves them… but still longing for peace, purpose, and connection.

A Few Favorite Quotes from This Episode:

Resources & Links:

🌿 Download Carolyn’s FREE Sips of Serenity Devotional
https://winter-hall-28614.myflodesk.com/30daydevo

Also available through Carolyn’s Instagram and Facebook:
@carolynbennett2.0

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About Carolyn Bennett

Carolyn Bennett is a certified This Naked Mind Coach, Ecotherapy Practitioner, speaker, and co-founder of The Zero Proof Life. She is passionate about helping women explore alcohol-free living through compassion, faith, and connection to nature. Her devotional Sips of Serenity was created to help women feel less alone and more spiritually anchored on their alcohol-free journey.

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Until next time — stay curious, stay kind, and keep choosing The Zero Proof Life.

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In this episode, Suzette Bray, a licensed marriage and family therapist, discusses the fundamentals of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and its practical applications for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and managing intense feelings—especially relevant for those navigating alcohol-free living.

keywords

DBT, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, mental health, alcohol-free, coping skills, workbook, therapy, mindfulness, emotional intelligence

key topics

• Introduction to DBT and its origins
• Core skills of DBT: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness
• Practical tools like the STOP skill and mammalian dive reflex
• DBT in schools and community settings
• The connection between trauma, mental health, and alcohol use

takeaways

• DBT was initially developed for chronically suicidal and self-harming individuals but is broadly useful for emotional regulation.
• Skills like the STOP technique and mammalian dive reflex can be practiced anywhere to manage high distress.
• Teaching DBT skills in schools helps normalize emotional health and provides early intervention.
• Alcohol often masks underlying emotional issues; addressing these with DBT can lead to lasting change.
• Consistent practice of coping skills is essential for them to become natural responses in high-stress moments.

guest:

Suzette Bray
https://www.suzettebray.com/

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• Carolyn Bennett – @thesoberempath (https://www.instagram.com/carolynbennett2.0/)
• Becca Snider – @becsnider (https://www.instagram.com/becsnider/)

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In this episode of The Zero Proof Life, hosts Karla Adkins and Lorna Wilson are back in the Limiting Belief Lab to break down one of the most common beliefs tied to alcohol use: "I deserve a drink."

Whether it shows up after a hard day, a big win, or a nerve-wracking moment, this belief is deeply woven into our culture — and in this episode, Karla and Lorna walk you through their four-step process to examine it, challenge it, and transform it.

In this episode you'll hear:

• Why "I deserve a drink" actually comes from a beautiful, healthy impulse — and how our thinking around it gets twisted
• The Backpack — the cultural, family, and social messages we've absorbed about drinking as a reward
• The Hard Drive — how our subconscious mind files these experiences and drives automatic behavior without fact-checking
• Real, personal stories from Karla and Lorna about what it actually cost them when they acted on this belief
• What your wiser self already knows — and how to start building new, truly restorative ways to celebrate and decompress

The Four Steps of the Limiting Belief Lab:

1. Name it — Write it down and single it out
2. Where did it come from? — Explore your backpack (external messages) and your hard drive (subconscious patterns)
3. What is it costing you? — Fact-check the belief against your real experience
4. What does your wiser self know? — Discover what genuinely fills your cup and restores you

Show Notes Recap — The Four Steps:

Step 1 — Name It: Write down the belief. "I deserve a drink." Naming it and isolating it is the first step to examining it.

Step 2 — Where Did It Come From?

• The Backpack: Think about what you absorbed growing up — from family, TV, workplace culture, happy hours. These messages were loaded into your backpack before you ever made a choice about drinking.
• The Hard Drive: Your subconscious mind files sequences — work hard → drink — without fact-checking them. These become automatic responses. The good news: science shows you can create new neural pathways.

Step 3 — What Is It Costing You? Write down specific examples from your own life. How did using alcohol as a reward actually make you feel? Did it deliver on its promise — or did it rob you of sleep, clarity, memory, or your sense of accomplishment?

Step 4 — What Does Your Wiser Self Know? What does she say? What does truly restoring yourself actually look like? What fills your cup, helps you wake up feeling proud, and sets you up for the next challenge?

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• Carolyn Bennett – @thesoberempath (https://www.instagram.com/carolynbennett2.0/)
• Becca Snider – @becsnider (https://www.instagram.com/becsnider/)

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